Find Your Vibe: The Must-Have Style Guide for Your Dream Photoshoot!

Y’all, I’ve Been Cookin’ Up Something Special Just for You!

Hey, y’all! I know I’ve been a little quiet lately, but trust me—it’s for a good reason. Between moving across states, settling into the new farm, and getting everything back up and running, life has been a whirlwind. But in the middle of all that chaos, I’ve been working on something incredible just for you.

If you’ve ever thought, What do I even wear for a photoshoot? or I have no idea what my vibe is anymore…, well, honey, I got you covered.

Introducing... The Ultimate Vibe Guide! 🎉

This isn’t just any ol’ style guide. This is 70+ pages of pure gold—packed with everything you need to find your signature vibe, style your outfits like a pro, and feel like a dang supermodel in front of the camera.

What’s Inside?

✨ Find Your Vibe – Whether you're soft & romantic, bold & edgy, or somewhere in between, this guide will help you discover your signature look.
✨ What to Wear (And Where to Find It!) – Styling tips that make you look effortlessly amazing, plus budget-friendly shopping recommendations so you don’t break the bank.
✨ How to Pose & Feel Confident – Because looking good is one thing, but feeling confident? That’s where the magic happens.
✨ Mood Boards & Outfit Inspo – Visual guides to help you see exactly what works and how to bring your shoot to life.

Why You Need This Guide Before Your Shoot

I know firsthand that choosing outfits for a photoshoot can feel overwhelming. But the right styling can transform your entire session—helping you feel confident, comfortable, and like the bombshell you are.

So whether you're planning a boudoir session, beauty shoot, or even a fun milestone session for yourself, this guide will make sure you walk in knowing exactly what works for you.

Ready to Find Your Vibe?

👉 Download Your Free Vibe Guide Here!

Go grab it, dive in, and let me know—what vibe are you feeling the most? I’d love to hear what speaks to you! And when you're ready to bring your vision to life, you know where to find me.

Stay fierce, stay fabulous, and most of all—stay YOU.

💛 Accalia Carter
Boushie Babes Photography

P.S. Got questions? Feeling stuck? Hit "reply" or DM me—I’m always here to help!

What I Learned While Moving: Tips, Tales, and a Whole Lot of Chaos

Moving across the country is no small feat, and let me tell you, I’ve learned a lot along the way. From packing hacks to survival tips for transporting a small zoo, here’s a mix of advice, lessons learned, and a heartfelt thank-you to my new community.

Packing Smarter, Not Harder

When it comes to packing, there are things you think will work—and then there’s reality. Here are a few tips I picked up the hard way:

1. Line Boxes for Liquids: If you’re packing anything liquid (cleaners, shampoos, etc.), line the box or tub with a black trash bag. Trust me, nothing ruins your day like opening a box of your favorite shampoo-turned-disaster.

2. Bag Your Hanging Clothes: Save time by bagging clothes right on the hanger with black trash bags. Skip the folding, skip the hassle—straight into the closet they go at the new place.

3. Label Everything: Label not just the tops but also the sides of your boxes. That way, no matter how things are stacked, you’ll know what’s inside.

4. Downsize Like Crazy: You will need to let go of more than you think—then let go of even more. We had to burn a lot of stuff we couldn’t sell or donate, simply because we ran out of time. Start early, declutter ruthlessly, and thank yourself later.

The Art of Loading the Truck

When loading the U-Haul, it’s all about strategy. Big items first, must-haves upfront, and fill every nook and cranny with smaller items. Think of it as a 3D puzzle, except the stakes are all your worldly possessions.

Prepare for Chaos

One of the biggest lessons I learned: you can’t always count on others, so always have a backup plan for your backup plan. Things will go wrong. Plans will fall apart. But you’ll figure it out—because you have to.

Traveling with a Zoo

Moving from Idaho to Oklahoma with plants, fish, toads, cats, and dogs? A wild ride. Here’s the recap:

• The plants: Many didn’t survive. RIP, greenery.

• The fish: A few casualties, sadly.

• The cats: Pissed off doesn’t even begin to describe their mood.

• The dogs: Surprisingly chill. Stars of the trip.

Two flat tires and countless “Are we there yet?” moments later, we made it. Traumatized, tired, but together—and that’s what counts.

Rebuilding and Community Support

Now that I’m here in Antlers, Oklahoma, it’s time to rebuild. This is where you, the community, come in. I can’t do it alone, but with your help, I know this year can be better than ever.

Here’s how you can support me as I plant roots and start fresh:

1. Follow Me: Like and follow my page on Facebook.

2. Join My VIP Group: Ladies only, it’s the place to be!

3. Subscribe: Hop on my email list to stay in the loop.

4. Download My Guides: Whether it’s photography, makeup trends, or other goodies, there’s something for everyone.

5. Book a Free Consultation: Let’s chat and see if we’re a good fit for your photography needs!

Looking Forward

The move was tough, but I’m here, ready to grow into the farm life and all the opportunities ahead. Thank you to everyone who’s already welcomed me—I can’t wait to see what we’ll create together in 2024.

Here’s to new beginnings, new connections, and a whole lot of growth. Let’s make it an incredible year! 🌟

Big Changes Ahead: My Journey to Oklahoma & Your Last Chance for a Session

Big Changes Ahead: My Journey to Oklahoma & Your Last Chance for a Session

It’s with a mix of emotions that I share some important news about the future of Boushie Babes Studio. Life is full of unexpected turns, and this is one of them. My landlord has decided to sell the house, and while I had a small hope that I might be able to purchase it, things didn’t work out in my favor. This leaves me in a tough spot where I have no other option but to move—not just the studio, but my home as well.

As many of you know, the housing market in the Pacific Northwest has become incredibly difficult for renters. With rising costs, I’ve found it impossible to stay in the area. So, I’ve made the difficult decision to relocate to the Midwest, to my mother’s property in Oklahoma. It’s a big change, but it’s also an opportunity for new beginnings. I’ll have access to 10 acres of beautiful land where I can build an amazing new studio and home over time. This move will also allow me to take some much-needed rest, reconnect with my mom and sister, and focus on creating something even more magical in the future.

But before I go, there’s still time! If you’ve ever wanted to book a session with me, now is your chance. We won’t be moving until likely March or April 2025, so I’m still booking sessions through at least February 2025! I’m offering a special rate of $299, which includes hair and makeup—a deal that truly can’t be beat. This is your last chance to book a session here in Sandpoint, so if you’ve been waiting for the right time, it’s now or never.

I want to be fully transparent: I’m feeling a little jaded with Sandpoint right now. This community has been my home, and I’ve loved every moment of capturing your stories, but life is taking me in a new direction. So, if you’ve been meaning to book a session and haven’t yet, now’s the time. After I move, you’ll have to come visit me in Oklahoma if you want that Boushie Babes magic!

I know this is a big change, but I’m excited for what’s ahead. Thank you all for your support, for trusting me to capture your stories, and for being part of this incredible journey. If you want to book your session, don’t wait—let’s make some magic before I hit the road!

With love and gratitude,
Accalia

Entangled in Nature: A Woodland Session with a Web of Wonder

Entangled in Nature: A Woodland Session with a Web of Wonder

This past weekend, we took things to the woods for an adventure like no other. Sharnai, our fabulous brand ambassador, my trusty assistant Edana, and I ventured out with a plan: an epic waterfall session… with a twist. And if you know Shar, you know she excels at doing things with a twist! She wanted to bring a Halloween-inspired vibe to the session—something spooky yet undeniably beautiful—and let me just say, we absolutely nailed it.

Shar has been shooting with us for two years now, and every session is a creative playground. We’re always down to experiment, and this time was no different. So what did we do? We grabbed some cheap spider webbing (the kind you find in the Halloween aisle), a few masks, some sheer curtains, and a handful of props. Sounds simple, right? But here's where the magic happened: who would've thought that basic webbing, combined with the right lighting, posing, and a sprinkle of creativity, could create pure visual magic? But we did it. And honestly, this set? It became both hers and my favorite of the day.

Now, let’s be real. A lot happened during this session—so much so that I’ll be writing another blog just to cover the rest of the magic. But this spider web set? It was something special. It was like the stars aligned (or maybe it was the trees) because everything just fell into place. The contrast of the delicate webbing against the natural, rugged beauty of the woods felt like a perfect metaphor—beauty entangled with a bit of mystery. There was so much to feel in this set, and you can see it in every shot.

As Shar and I reviewed the photos, we were like, “Ooo, damn…” and “Oh wow, this one is giving off serious Hollywood glam vibes!” We even had a few “OMG, this is the shot” moments. And let me tell you, when both the photographer and the model are feeling that kind of energy, you know something special has been captured.

So, here's a full slideshow of the spider web set, featuring Shar's favorites and mine. It’s a bit of a longer set, but trust me—it’s worth watching every frame. The mix of creativity, beauty, and a touch of eerie magic is something I’m incredibly proud of. Honestly, this might be some of my best work yet, if I do say so myself.

Be sure to watch the full show to get all the feels and all the flavors. You’ll see everything from dreamy, ethereal moments to glam shots that give off old Hollywood vibes. This set is the perfect blend of Halloween spook and sheer beauty, and I’m so excited to share it with you all.

Stay tuned for more behind-the-scenes stories of what went down in the woods that day, because trust me, the spider web set was just the beginning.

Izzy Unfiltered: A Teen's Quest for Authenticity

Izzy Unfiltered: A Teen's Quest for Authenticity

Over the last few weeks, I’ve been reminded—yet again—how time is both precious and fleeting. My daughter just celebrated another birthday, and we had the most amazing teen session with Izzy. It really hit home how fast the years fly by. The moments we cherish today are the ones we’ll long for tomorrow, so why not capture them now while we can? Take the pictures, invest in some wall art that will bring you joy for years to come. One day, you'll look back, and if you don’t capture these moments now, you might wish you had.

Now, let's talk about teens for a sec. Being a teen today is a completely different ballgame compared to when I was growing up. These days, teens like Izzy are facing new challenges I never even dreamed of. There’s social media pressure, endless comparisons, the weight of trying to fit into a world that’s always telling them who to be. It’s a lot. The struggle is very real, but I’ve seen firsthand how powerful it can be when teens are given a safe space to just be themselves.

Izzy, like so many teens, started her session a little unsure. She had that "Why are we doing this?" look, the classic teenage skepticism we all know so well. But as we got into it, you could see the transformation happening in real time. There was this beautiful moment where it clicked for her. She realized, Oh, this is why!—because doing something outside her comfort zone didn’t just challenge her, it empowered her.

It’s that magic moment when you step up for yourself, take a leap, and feel good—truly good—about who you are. That’s what these sessions are all about. It’s about stepping away from the noise, the pressure, the world telling you who to be, and instead, embracing who you are.

Izzy walked away from her session feeling more connected to herself, and that’s exactly what I want for every teen who walks through my door. These sessions are about more than just photos—they're about self-care, confidence, and capturing the essence of who you are, right now, at this unique stage of life.

Time may fly, but the memories and moments we choose to hold onto can last a lifetime.

So, if you’ve got a teen who’s ready to explore who they are in a safe, supportive environment, I’d love to help. Let’s create a space where they can express themselves authentically, and yes, feel really good doing it. Book a teen session today—because these moments? They’re worth remembering.

Growing into Greatness: Nat's Inspiring Journey and the Beauty of Growth

Growing into Greatness: Nat's Inspiring Journey and the Beauty of Growth

A few weeks ago, I had the absolute privilege of capturing a special milestone in a young woman's life—a moment that symbolized growth, resilience, and the beauty of new beginnings. My client, who I affectionately refer to as B.A.(Brand Ambassador), approached me with an idea that deeply resonated with my heart as a mother: she wanted to celebrate her oldest daughter, Nat, for her incredible journey over the past year.

Nat had made bold choices—choosing to pursue her GED, land her first job, learn to drive, buy her first car, and even chase her passion for theater. These aren’t just small wins; they’re monumental moments that mark the beginning of her adult life. As a photographer and a mother, I was thrilled to be part of this celebration, to capture not just her beauty but her journey.

We selected downtown Sandpoint as the location for her senior portrait session—a place with a lot of charm and variety, perfect for capturing the many sides of Nat in just over an hour. And trust me, we nailed it. But the day wasn’t without its challenges. On the morning of the shoot, Nat was feeling down after having some trouble with tests she needed to retake. As a teenager, setbacks can feel monumental. But as we started shooting, you could see the shift in her—her confidence blossomed, and soon she was all smiles, radiating strength and joy right before the rain decided to make an appearance!

Nat’s senior portrait session wasn’t just about taking beautiful pictures—it was about truly seeing her. I could tell from her reaction that this experience gave her something more than just images; it gave her a sense of being seen and celebrated, a feeling that’s rare but so essential, especially for teenagers. It was a reminder of her growth, her strength, and her beauty in the midst of the messy, wonderful transition into adulthood.

To the Parents Reading This...

As a mother of three myself, I know how fleeting these moments are. Trust me when I say, these years will fly by, and before you know it, they’re grown, off chasing their dreams, just like Nat. And what’s left are the memories—and hopefully, the photos to hold onto. As someone who’s now an empty nester, I can’t help but wish I could rewind and have one more day of a house full of laughter and the beautiful chaos of raising kids. But what I really miss? The photos I didn’t take, the ones I didn’t invest in, thinking I could always "get to it later."

Don’t make the mistake I made. Don’t let these moments pass by without preserving them. Senior portraits are more than just photos—they are a celebration of your child’s growth, their accomplishments, their dreams, and the beginning of a new chapter. It’s an investment in a memory that will only grow more valuable with time.

To the Teens Like Nat...

This is your moment. You’re standing at the edge of something amazing, and the world is yours to take. You deserve to feel seen, celebrated, and proud of the person you are becoming. This portrait session isn’t just for your parents—it’s for you. It’s a reflection of all you’ve accomplished and all that lies ahead.

If you're ready to capture your own journey, to celebrate who you are right now, let's talk. Whether you're a parent looking to preserve this moment for your child or a teen wanting to embrace this exciting chapter, I would love to be a part of your story.

Book Your Senior Portrait Session Today!
Don’t wait. These moments are precious and fleeting. Let’s create something beautiful together that you can cherish for a lifetime. Click here to schedule a free consultation, and let's make magic happen!

Client Testimonial: "Accalia made our daughter's senior session an unforgettable experience. Nat not only looked beautiful but felt beautiful, and that’s something no one else has ever done for her in quite this way. We will cherish these photos forever." – B.A.

Pure Delight: From Laughter to Lust – Photography's Dance with Pleasure

Pure Delight: From Laughter to Lust – Photography's Dance with Pleasure

This week, Boushie Babes, we’re diving deep into the essence of pleasure and how to capture it in its many forms—whether it’s a sultry, sexy smirk or that pure, uncontrollable laughter that lights up a room.

Let’s be honest—pleasure is something we often overlook in the hustle and bustle of life. We’re so focused on getting through the day, ticking off our to-do lists, and fulfilling responsibilities, that we forget to simply revel in life’s moments of joy. But here’s the thing—pleasure is worth celebrating. And in photography, when it's done right, it’s one of the most captivating, natural looks that bring an image to life. Whether it’s laughter, contentment, serenity, or sensuality, pleasure comes in so many states, and that’s what makes it so beautiful to capture.

Now, how do we bring that authentic feeling of pleasure into a photograph without it looking staged or awkward? Well, darling, that’s my secret sauce, and I’m not spilling all the tea today—you’ll have to book a session with me for the full experience! But what I will say is this: I’ve got a way of helping you let go, relax, and feel more at ease in your own body than you have in a long time. It’s a process of trust and release, and once you’re in that flow, it’s like magic. You won’t just see it in your photos—you’ll feel it in your bones. And the best part? No waiting around. You get to see your stunning images that very day, fresh off the camera, so you can immediately witness the beauty of your authentic self.

Let's talk about the idea of pleasure for a moment. We hear the word and instantly think it’s something taboo, something forbidden. But pleasure is so much more than that—it’s about savoring life. So, what exactly is pleasure? (Cue the witty definition here). Pleasure, defined as “the state of being pleased, gratified, or satisfied,” isn’t just about the obvious—it’s the simple things too. Ever had a bite of food so good you let out a little moan without realizing it? Yeah, me too. That’s a state of pleasure. Waking up after a full night of uninterrupted sleep and feeling completely rested—bliss. Sinking into a perfectly hot bath that melts your stress away—absolute heaven.

These are the moments we don’t often think of as pleasure, but they absolutely are. It’s not always about desire or sensuality—it’s about feeling good in whatever form that takes for you. And that is what I love about photography. It allows us to capture those moments of pure delight, no matter what brings them about.

When you come in for a session, we’re going to explore what makes you feel good. We’ll bring out the laughter, the serenity, and yes, even that sensual, come-hither glance if that’s your vibe. I’ve worked with so many women who walked in feeling unsure of how they’d look or feel in front of the camera, but trust me when I say—I’ve got you. We’ll create an atmosphere where you can just be, and I’ll be there to guide you every step of the way to capture your pleasure in its truest form.

Not all pleasure is about lust—it’s about living in the moment, feeling the warmth of the sun on your skin, and embracing whatever makes you come alive. So, let go of those outdated ways of thinking. There’s no shame in showing off your pleasure, in any form it comes in.

Now, scroll down and take a look at some of these incredible women who’ve owned their pleasure, whether it’s through laughter, longing, or that sultry look that says “I know my worth.” This is your permission slip to feel good, to celebrate the beauty of pleasure, and to let the camera tell your story in a way that’s true to you.

Whispers of Want: The Dance of Desire

Whispers of Want: The Dance of Desire

This week, Boushie Babes, we're turning up the heat—seriously, is it getting hot in here? 🔥 We’re diving headfirst into those sultry looks, those come hither bedroom eyes, the looks that could melt even the iciest of hearts. Oh yes, we're talking about desire.

You know what I’m talking about: those steamy, intense gazes that make a photo feel alive with passion. Have you ever looked at a picture and wondered how on earth the pros make those come hither glances seem so effortless, so uncoached? Well, honey, I can’t spill all the tea right here, but let me just say—I can get you there. That's right, I’ll be your personal guide, coaching and directing you to master that you know you want this look for your session. Trust me, boo, I’ve got you covered!

But first, let’s break it down a little. What exactly is desire, you ask? Here’s a quick and witty definition for you: Desire – "That overwhelming feeling that you need something—or someone—right this very moment, preferably draped in a little mystery and a whole lot of seduction." It’s that slow burn, that magnetic pull, the thing that makes us lean in just a little closer, both in life and in photography.

So how does that translate into your session? Let me tell you a secret: desire isn’t just one note—it’s a whole symphony. And just like music, it comes in different flavors and volumes. Sometimes, it’s that quiet, smoldering stare. Other times, it’s bold and unapologetic, like I dare you energy. It can be soft, intimate, or downright fiery. The key is finding your range, and that’s where my magic comes in.

When you step into my studio, we’re not just snapping photos. Oh no, we’re collaborating to create art. I’m here to help you explore the spectrum of desire, guiding you to find your unique expression of it. Because everyone’s version of passion is a little different—what’s sexy and desirable for one person might be entirely different for someone else, and that’s what makes it so fascinating.

And while we’re talking body language, here’s another fun fact: Did you know that desire often shows up in the smallest of movements? A slight tilt of the chin, the soft parting of lips, the way the eyes linger just a second too long... All of these little cues add up to create the full picture of longing and allure. It’s subtle, but when it’s done right, it’s pure magic in front of the camera.

Just take a peek at the images below—what do you see? Those subtle curves, that playful glance, or the intensity in their gaze? These are all moments we can recreate together. My specialty is finding your unique flavor of desire and turning it into something truly unforgettable. Whether it’s quiet and smoldering or bold and seductive, I’ll guide you through it all. And by the end of the session, you’ll be feeling like a whole new, irresistible version of yourself.

So, if you’re ready to channel your inner siren and dance with desire in front of the lens, don’t wait. Book your session now, and let’s create some steamy, magical, one-of-a-kind shots that will have you saying, “Is that really me?”

Because yes, babe. Yes, it is. 🔥

Eternal Yearning from the Heart, Photography's Silent Storyteller

Eternal Yearning from the Heart, Photography's Silent Storyteller

This week, Boushie Babes, we're diving into an emotion that might make some of you squirm a bit—and that’s okay! This one’s for those who, like me, find beauty in the bittersweet: longing. Yes, that deep, aching desire we often tuck away, hoping it doesn’t spill out at the most inconvenient times.

But first, let’s get on the same page: what exactly is longing? (Cue the dictionary) Longing is defined as “a strong desire or craving, especially for something unattainable.” Now, doesn’t that hit home? Longing is like that lingering taste of chocolate on your tongue—sweet, yet just out of reach. It’s that little tug at your heart when you think about a dream vacation or a long-lost love. It’s the feeling that makes you sigh when you pass by a bakery and smell freshly baked bread, knowing you promised yourself you’d skip the carbs today.

In photography, longing can manifest in so many different ways. Sometimes it appears almost sad, like a wistful gaze out of a rainy window. Other times, it carries a hint of madness, that wild, desperate yearning we all feel at 3 AM when we’re scrolling through Instagram and thinking, “Why isn’t my life this fabulous?” And then there’s the lustful side of longing—the kind that makes a photograph sizzle with unspoken desire. It can also be otherworldly, creating an ethereal connection that pulls at the strings of your soul.

Longing is one of those emotions that, when captured just right, speaks directly to the heart and soul. It’s not always comfortable, but it’s undeniably beautiful. There’s an art to it, a subtlety that grabs you by the soul and refuses to let go. That’s why I love it—because when you see it in a photograph, it’s like finding a piece of your own heart staring back at you.

Think about it: you can long for anything—a good night’s sleep (who doesn’t?), a much-needed vacation (yes, please!), the perfect lover (aren’t we all?), or even just a meal so divine it gives you a foodgasm (and yes, those are real and worth longing for). Longing isn’t just an emotion; it’s a story waiting to be told, a silent whisper that says so much more than words ever could.

So, do you love longing, or does it make you want to run for the hills? Either way, there’s no denying its power in photography. Below, I’ve put together a gallery that showcases the many flavors of longing—from the tender and sweet to the fierce and fiery. Take a look, and see if it stirs something in you.

Tease, Tempt, and Capture: The Art of Subtle Seduction in Photography

Tease, Tempt, and Capture: The Art of Subtle Seduction in Photography

The art of a subtle glance in a game of seduction—we all know that glance. We’ve all given it a time or two. You know, that look of coy flirtation that says everything without saying a word. Coy flirtation is defined as a playful, teasing manner that suggests attraction or interest, often with an air of shyness or modesty. It’s that look that teases just enough to keep someone guessing, a perfect blend of mystery and allure.

When it comes to photography, capturing that coy, flirtatious vibe is pure magic. It’s one of those timeless expressions that, when done right, can turn a simple photo into something mesmerizing. And let me tell you, ladies, it's one of my all-time favorites to coach and direct you for! The beauty of a coy glance is that it’s all in the subtleties—the slight tilt of the head, the gentle curve of a smile, and, most importantly, the eyes that say so much with so little.

Now, before we dive deeper into the art of coy flirtation, let’s talk a little science. Because, yes, even in the world of photography, science plays a role. Specifically, those wonderful little things called mirror neurons. These neurons are part of our brain's empathy system. When we see someone smile, our mirror neurons light up, making us feel a bit of that joy too. The same goes for that coy, flirtatious glance—when you see it, you feel the allure. That’s why, when you nail that look in your photos, it’s not just a picture; it’s an emotion, a moment that draws people in.

Coy flirtation in photography isn’t about being overt or obvious; it’s about the power of suggestion. It’s that slight hesitation, the almost smile, the eyes that hint at something more. It’s about capturing the essence of playfulness and intrigue in a way that feels authentic and captivating.

But here’s the kicker—I’m not spilling all my secrets here. Nope, you’re going to have to book a session to experience the full magic for yourself! Trust me, though, when I say that I’ve got you covered. I’ll guide you through every step, from that initial shy glance to the perfect coy smile that’ll have everyone wondering what you’re thinking.

So, if you’re ready to channel your inner siren and master the art of subtle seduction through photography, let’s make it happen. In the meantime, take a peek at this gallery of coy flirtation—these are the results you can expect when you step in front of my camera. Because, darling, I’ve got you, and I’m ready to help you tease, tempt, and capture that perfect look.

Ready to create your own gallery of irresistible, flirtatious photos? Let’s do this! Your moment of subtle seduction is just a session away. 💋

Cultivating Confidence: Unleashing Your Inner Strength

Cultivating Confidence: Unleashing Your Inner Strength

Last week, Boushie Babes, I dove into the world of Joy, so it feels only right to turn our attention to Confidence this week. Now, let's be real—who doesn't want to look and feel confident? We all do, right? But how often do we actually feel confident? If you're anything like me, there are days when you have to dig deep and, yes, fake it till you make it. Sound familiar? I can't be the only one riding that wave!

Here's the thing: confidence isn't just a feeling; it's an attitude. The dictionary defines confidence as "a feeling of self-assurance arising from one's appreciation of one's own abilities or qualities." It's about knowing your worth, and even more importantly, it's about showing it to the world. But let's face it—confidence can be elusive. There are times when it feels like you're wearing a mask, projecting strength you don't quite believe in yet.

Take it from me: in most of the images you see where I look strong and confident, I'm usually not feeling that way. At least, not at first. It's only after I strike a few poses or express a particular emotion that I start to embody the confidence I'm portraying. That's the magic of photography—it allows you to step into a version of yourself that you might not fully believe in just yet.

Now, you might be wondering why I have you mimic my poses in the studio, why I ask you to mirror me. It’s not just for fun, though it can be! It’s all about something called mirror neurons. Here’s a bit of science for you: mirror neurons are a group of neurons that fire both when an individual performs an action and when they observe the same action performed by someone else. These neurons are key players in how we learn through imitation and are deeply connected to the empathy we feel when we see others' emotions.

So, when I ask you to copy my movements, I'm actually helping your brain trigger the same emotional response that I'm showing. This means when you mirror my confident stance, your brain starts to fire up those confidence neurons, and before you know it, you're not just looking confident—you are confident. Pretty cool, right?

There’s a real science behind what I do, which is why it works. So, when I tell you to mirror me, trust that it's more than just play-acting. It’s about aligning your body language with your inner strength, even if it takes a few tries to get there. Thanks to my training with Denise Birdsong and the Stripped Down: The Art of Emotion course, I've got a deep understanding of the body language that screams confidence, and I can coach you into that space with ease.

And that, my friends, is why I can help you project confidence in your photos—even if you don’t feel it right away. The magic happens in that moment when you realize you’ve got it, that you are owning your space, and that the confidence is no longer just a pose—it’s you. So, whether you're stepping into my studio or just tackling your day, remember: confidence is more than a look, it's an energy. And trust me, you’ve got it in spades.

Check out these flavors of confidence below:

The Art of Coaching Authentic Joy: Insights from My Coaching Class

The Art of Coaching Authentic Joy: Insights from My Coaching Class

This week in class, we dove into the art of coaching for genuine, authentic joy. Yes, you can actually coach for joy in pictures and capture that real, unfiltered happiness. I often hear from clients that my photos don’t look posed—they look happy, genuine, and not forced. And trust me, my goal is always to avoid that "constipated" look or the overly cheesy smile we've all done a million times when someone says "cheese."

Genuine Joy is a state of being that allows one to experience feelings of intense, long-lasting happiness and satisfaction in life. Being able to capture that joy in my clients is priceless. In our day-to-day lives, we rarely get to see ourselves in moments of pure joy—everyone else does, but we often miss it in ourselves. Seeing that joy reflected in a photograph is a powerful experience.

There are different levels of joy too. It can range from a subtle level 1 to an exuberant level 10, and even beyond. Some of us are more level-one types, while others can go from 1 to 10+ in a matter of minutes. The beauty of it is that there’s no right or wrong way to express joy—all the flavors are okay.

Here are some tips I have to help bring out those genuine smiles:

1. The Fake Laugh: Yes, just do it. As weird as it sounds, it works. It starts with a fake laugh, and soon enough, it turns into real laughter.

2. Breathe: Most of the time, we hold our breath when taking photos, making our smiles look forced. Take a deep breath and relax.

3. Part Your Lips: Ever so slightly parting your lips can make your smile look more natural and less posed.

Through these techniques, I’ve been able to capture moments of pure joy that my clients and I cherish. Here are some joyful images from recent sessions—each one a testament to the power of genuine happiness.

Seeing these moments reminds me why I do what I do and why I am passionate about capturing not just images, but emotions. Check out these joyful images below and see for yourself the magic of coaching for real, authentic joy.

A Love Story Captured: Callie and Her Hubby’s Anniversary Shoot

This week, we're shining a spotlight on a truly special session with our brand ambassador, Callie, and her husband, Stefan. They came in to celebrate their 19th wedding anniversary and over 20 years of love and connection. This July, they honored the studio with their presence for a simple, elegant black set affair that turned into something truly magical.

Now, let me give you some background. Callie has been working with me for the last few years, but Stefan, like many larger men, is a bit shy and not too fond of having his picture taken. It has taken a lot of coaxing and patience to get him comfortable enough to step into the studio. Trust me, it wasn’t easy. We finally nailed down a date that worked for all of our busy schedules, and we stuck to it. Despite panic attacks, broken zippers, clothing that didn't quite fit, and many other little hiccups, we pushed through. And boy, am I glad we did!

With some coaching and direction, we captured some truly amazing portraits. The connection, heat, and passion between Callie and Stefan were palpable. Even for a basic couples session, things definitely heated up in the studio. It was an honor to witness and capture their love and passion, especially knowing how much it took to get Stefan to this point. After years of trying to get them in the studio together, the timing was finally right, and I was beyond grateful for the opportunity.

In the days leading up to their session, I studied hard. I watched the videos from Stripped Down and reviewed the posing flows to ensure everything was fresh in my mind. This preparation helped set the mood for some truly emotive images. Fully clothed, with all the feels, we created a series of portraits that spoke volumes about their deep connection and enduring love.

If you and your partner are looking to explore and capture your own unique connection and passion, I've got you covered. Send me an email with your info, and let's create something beautiful together.

For Callie and Stefan, this session was more than just pictures—it was a celebration of their journey together, their love, and their unwavering connection. It was a reminder that even after 20+ years, the fire can still burn bright. Thank you, Callie and Stefan, for letting me be a part of this special moment. It was an experience I will never forget.

Feel free to share your thoughts and let me know what emotions you see in their images. I love hearing your feedback and connecting with all of you on a deeper level. Let's celebrate love in all its forms and honor the connections that make our lives richer and more meaningful.

Hot Weather Hacks: How I Beat the Heat in the PNW

Hot Weather Hacks: How I Beat the Heat in the PNW

So this week I am writing about ways to beat this heat. With August coming in hot, I wanted to share a few of my favorite ways to stay cool in the summer heat, along with some other effective methods. As someone who is heat sensitive, I usually have to stay out of the sun and avoid the heat like my life depends on it—because it can. Here are some of my tried-and-true methods to keep cool:

Go Swimming

My favorite way to beat the heat is to go swimming. Whether it's at Lake Pend Oreille or your favorite swim hole, there's nothing like taking a dip to cool down. Living in the Pacific Northwest, we're lucky to have so many amazing spots to go swimming.

Take Cold Showers

My new second favorite way to stay cool is cold showers. No joke, I take a cold shower every morning, and if I need to, again later in the day if I can't get to the lake. It really helps me stay cool longer and regulate my body temperature all day.

Use a Cold Rag

Another good way to cool down in a pinch is a cold rag on the back of the neck. I do this when I’m cleaning houses with no AC. It provides instant relief and helps lower your body temperature.

Air Conditioning

Speaking of air conditioning, it's 2024—you'd think most of us would have some form of AC by now, but it’s still considered a luxury for many. If you have it, use it! If not, try to spend time in air-conditioned public spaces like malls or libraries.

Drink Warm Liquids

An old wives' tale I heard on job sites is to drink warm or room temperature liquids all day, not ice cold. The idea is that your body has to warm the ice-cold liquids, while drinking warm or room-temperature things tells your body to cool down. It sounds weird, but there's some science behind it. I even asked my doctor, and he agreed!

Try Cooling Herbs

There are also herbs you can drink as teas to help promote a cooling effect in your body. Peppermint and hibiscus are popular choices. But be careful with this one—it can mess with your body chemistry if not done correctly.

Wear Light Clothing

Wear light, loose-fitting clothing made of natural fabrics like cotton. It helps your skin breathe and keeps you cooler than synthetic fabrics.

Stay Hydrated

This might sound obvious, but staying hydrated is crucial. Drink plenty of water throughout the day. Add some slices of cucumber or mint to your water for an extra refreshing twist. Also, watermelon is a good way to stay hydrated and have a snack to…

Use Fans Wisely

If you don’t have AC, use fans strategically. Place a bowl of ice in front of a fan to create a DIY air conditioner. Also, remember to keep windows open at night and closed during the day to keep the cool air in and the hot air out.

Use Blinds

This may sound weird but open and close your blinds in the heat of the day, or as the sun comes over to that part of the house if you can or are home, if not just slightly close them on the hot days and this will help cool the house.

Avoid Strenuous Activities

Try to avoid strenuous activities during the hottest part of the day. If you need to exercise, do it early in the morning or later in the evening when it’s cooler.

Eat Light Meals

Eating heavy meals can increase your body temperature. Opt for light, refreshing foods like salads, fruits, and smoothies to help keep your body cool.

Cool Your Pulse Points

Applying ice packs or cold compresses to your pulse points—wrists, neck, and temples—can help cool your body down quickly.

So there you have it! A mix of my favorite ways to stay cool and some additional tips to help you beat the heat. Drop your favorite ways to beat the heat below and stay cool, Boushie Babes!

Oh, I almost forgot if you happen across any merfolk be sure to say HI for me…

Capturing Emotions: My Journey Through Selfies and Beyond

Capturing Emotions: My Journey Through Selfies and Beyond

Hey Boushie Babes,

Can you guess what the homework was this week? Yes, selfies! That’s right, I had to take selfies, or sometimes hand the camera over to my assistant, to demonstrate the core emotions we aim for in our sessions. This exercise helps me coach you, my clients, to express those same emotions and even more when you step into my studio.

So, what emotions are we covering this week? Joy, confidence (yes, you can coach for confidence!), coy flirtation, longing, states of pleasure, and states of desire. Sounds interesting, right? Like, how and what? No way! But trust me, after a few years of practice, it becomes second nature.

The fun part of this assignment is the continuous learning and growth it brings. By practicing these emotions, I not only grow as an artist but also give you, my clients, the agency to be who you are in front of the camera. It's about capturing the real you, your genuine emotions, and your unique beauty.

I’m sharing a slideshow of my full gallery from this homework, which showcases all my flavors, more than what’s taught in the class. I would love to get some feedback from you. What do you feel when you see these photos? What emotions do you see?

Your insights and feedback mean the world to me. It's through this shared journey that we all grow and become more in tune with our emotions and our true selves.

Stay tuned for more exciting updates and artistic explorations. Your support and engagement inspire me every day. Let’s keep this creative energy flowing!
Watch the full slideshow of my gallery of my homework this week below, don’t forget to let me know what emotions you see as well.

Slideshow

Thank you for being a part of this journey with me. Your love and feedback keep me motivated and inspired!

With love,

Accalia Carter

Boushie Babes Photography Mission Statement 🌟

At Boushie Babes Photography, our mission transcends the realm of capturing moments – it's about orchestrating an experience that empowers, celebrates, and reveals the unique beauty within each individual. We believe in the transformative power of genuine connection, the kind that goes beyond the click of a camera.

Our lens doesn't just freeze time; it narrates stories, weaves dreams, and paints portraits of authenticity. We are devoted to unraveling the multitudes within you, capturing the nuances, the laughter, the vulnerability, and the strength that make you who you are.

In this space, we redefine photography as a celebration of self-expression, self-love, and the kaleidoscope of emotions that define your journey. We specialize in coaching moments, not just capturing them, ensuring that each image is a mirror reflecting the truest version of your essence.

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