Entangled in Nature: A Woodland Session with a Web of Wonder

Entangled in Nature: A Woodland Session with a Web of Wonder

This past weekend, we took things to the woods for an adventure like no other. Sharnai, our fabulous brand ambassador, my trusty assistant Edana, and I ventured out with a plan: an epic waterfall session… with a twist. And if you know Shar, you know she excels at doing things with a twist! She wanted to bring a Halloween-inspired vibe to the session—something spooky yet undeniably beautiful—and let me just say, we absolutely nailed it.

Shar has been shooting with us for two years now, and every session is a creative playground. We’re always down to experiment, and this time was no different. So what did we do? We grabbed some cheap spider webbing (the kind you find in the Halloween aisle), a few masks, some sheer curtains, and a handful of props. Sounds simple, right? But here's where the magic happened: who would've thought that basic webbing, combined with the right lighting, posing, and a sprinkle of creativity, could create pure visual magic? But we did it. And honestly, this set? It became both hers and my favorite of the day.

Now, let’s be real. A lot happened during this session—so much so that I’ll be writing another blog just to cover the rest of the magic. But this spider web set? It was something special. It was like the stars aligned (or maybe it was the trees) because everything just fell into place. The contrast of the delicate webbing against the natural, rugged beauty of the woods felt like a perfect metaphor—beauty entangled with a bit of mystery. There was so much to feel in this set, and you can see it in every shot.

As Shar and I reviewed the photos, we were like, “Ooo, damn…” and “Oh wow, this one is giving off serious Hollywood glam vibes!” We even had a few “OMG, this is the shot” moments. And let me tell you, when both the photographer and the model are feeling that kind of energy, you know something special has been captured.

So, here's a full slideshow of the spider web set, featuring Shar's favorites and mine. It’s a bit of a longer set, but trust me—it’s worth watching every frame. The mix of creativity, beauty, and a touch of eerie magic is something I’m incredibly proud of. Honestly, this might be some of my best work yet, if I do say so myself.

Be sure to watch the full show to get all the feels and all the flavors. You’ll see everything from dreamy, ethereal moments to glam shots that give off old Hollywood vibes. This set is the perfect blend of Halloween spook and sheer beauty, and I’m so excited to share it with you all.

Stay tuned for more behind-the-scenes stories of what went down in the woods that day, because trust me, the spider web set was just the beginning.

Izzy Unfiltered: A Teen's Quest for Authenticity

Izzy Unfiltered: A Teen's Quest for Authenticity

Over the last few weeks, I’ve been reminded—yet again—how time is both precious and fleeting. My daughter just celebrated another birthday, and we had the most amazing teen session with Izzy. It really hit home how fast the years fly by. The moments we cherish today are the ones we’ll long for tomorrow, so why not capture them now while we can? Take the pictures, invest in some wall art that will bring you joy for years to come. One day, you'll look back, and if you don’t capture these moments now, you might wish you had.

Now, let's talk about teens for a sec. Being a teen today is a completely different ballgame compared to when I was growing up. These days, teens like Izzy are facing new challenges I never even dreamed of. There’s social media pressure, endless comparisons, the weight of trying to fit into a world that’s always telling them who to be. It’s a lot. The struggle is very real, but I’ve seen firsthand how powerful it can be when teens are given a safe space to just be themselves.

Izzy, like so many teens, started her session a little unsure. She had that "Why are we doing this?" look, the classic teenage skepticism we all know so well. But as we got into it, you could see the transformation happening in real time. There was this beautiful moment where it clicked for her. She realized, Oh, this is why!—because doing something outside her comfort zone didn’t just challenge her, it empowered her.

It’s that magic moment when you step up for yourself, take a leap, and feel good—truly good—about who you are. That’s what these sessions are all about. It’s about stepping away from the noise, the pressure, the world telling you who to be, and instead, embracing who you are.

Izzy walked away from her session feeling more connected to herself, and that’s exactly what I want for every teen who walks through my door. These sessions are about more than just photos—they're about self-care, confidence, and capturing the essence of who you are, right now, at this unique stage of life.

Time may fly, but the memories and moments we choose to hold onto can last a lifetime.

So, if you’ve got a teen who’s ready to explore who they are in a safe, supportive environment, I’d love to help. Let’s create a space where they can express themselves authentically, and yes, feel really good doing it. Book a teen session today—because these moments? They’re worth remembering.

Pure Delight: From Laughter to Lust – Photography's Dance with Pleasure

Pure Delight: From Laughter to Lust – Photography's Dance with Pleasure

This week, Boushie Babes, we’re diving deep into the essence of pleasure and how to capture it in its many forms—whether it’s a sultry, sexy smirk or that pure, uncontrollable laughter that lights up a room.

Let’s be honest—pleasure is something we often overlook in the hustle and bustle of life. We’re so focused on getting through the day, ticking off our to-do lists, and fulfilling responsibilities, that we forget to simply revel in life’s moments of joy. But here’s the thing—pleasure is worth celebrating. And in photography, when it's done right, it’s one of the most captivating, natural looks that bring an image to life. Whether it’s laughter, contentment, serenity, or sensuality, pleasure comes in so many states, and that’s what makes it so beautiful to capture.

Now, how do we bring that authentic feeling of pleasure into a photograph without it looking staged or awkward? Well, darling, that’s my secret sauce, and I’m not spilling all the tea today—you’ll have to book a session with me for the full experience! But what I will say is this: I’ve got a way of helping you let go, relax, and feel more at ease in your own body than you have in a long time. It’s a process of trust and release, and once you’re in that flow, it’s like magic. You won’t just see it in your photos—you’ll feel it in your bones. And the best part? No waiting around. You get to see your stunning images that very day, fresh off the camera, so you can immediately witness the beauty of your authentic self.

Let's talk about the idea of pleasure for a moment. We hear the word and instantly think it’s something taboo, something forbidden. But pleasure is so much more than that—it’s about savoring life. So, what exactly is pleasure? (Cue the witty definition here). Pleasure, defined as “the state of being pleased, gratified, or satisfied,” isn’t just about the obvious—it’s the simple things too. Ever had a bite of food so good you let out a little moan without realizing it? Yeah, me too. That’s a state of pleasure. Waking up after a full night of uninterrupted sleep and feeling completely rested—bliss. Sinking into a perfectly hot bath that melts your stress away—absolute heaven.

These are the moments we don’t often think of as pleasure, but they absolutely are. It’s not always about desire or sensuality—it’s about feeling good in whatever form that takes for you. And that is what I love about photography. It allows us to capture those moments of pure delight, no matter what brings them about.

When you come in for a session, we’re going to explore what makes you feel good. We’ll bring out the laughter, the serenity, and yes, even that sensual, come-hither glance if that’s your vibe. I’ve worked with so many women who walked in feeling unsure of how they’d look or feel in front of the camera, but trust me when I say—I’ve got you. We’ll create an atmosphere where you can just be, and I’ll be there to guide you every step of the way to capture your pleasure in its truest form.

Not all pleasure is about lust—it’s about living in the moment, feeling the warmth of the sun on your skin, and embracing whatever makes you come alive. So, let go of those outdated ways of thinking. There’s no shame in showing off your pleasure, in any form it comes in.

Now, scroll down and take a look at some of these incredible women who’ve owned their pleasure, whether it’s through laughter, longing, or that sultry look that says “I know my worth.” This is your permission slip to feel good, to celebrate the beauty of pleasure, and to let the camera tell your story in a way that’s true to you.

Whispers of Want: The Dance of Desire

Whispers of Want: The Dance of Desire

This week, Boushie Babes, we're turning up the heat—seriously, is it getting hot in here? 🔥 We’re diving headfirst into those sultry looks, those come hither bedroom eyes, the looks that could melt even the iciest of hearts. Oh yes, we're talking about desire.

You know what I’m talking about: those steamy, intense gazes that make a photo feel alive with passion. Have you ever looked at a picture and wondered how on earth the pros make those come hither glances seem so effortless, so uncoached? Well, honey, I can’t spill all the tea right here, but let me just say—I can get you there. That's right, I’ll be your personal guide, coaching and directing you to master that you know you want this look for your session. Trust me, boo, I’ve got you covered!

But first, let’s break it down a little. What exactly is desire, you ask? Here’s a quick and witty definition for you: Desire – "That overwhelming feeling that you need something—or someone—right this very moment, preferably draped in a little mystery and a whole lot of seduction." It’s that slow burn, that magnetic pull, the thing that makes us lean in just a little closer, both in life and in photography.

So how does that translate into your session? Let me tell you a secret: desire isn’t just one note—it’s a whole symphony. And just like music, it comes in different flavors and volumes. Sometimes, it’s that quiet, smoldering stare. Other times, it’s bold and unapologetic, like I dare you energy. It can be soft, intimate, or downright fiery. The key is finding your range, and that’s where my magic comes in.

When you step into my studio, we’re not just snapping photos. Oh no, we’re collaborating to create art. I’m here to help you explore the spectrum of desire, guiding you to find your unique expression of it. Because everyone’s version of passion is a little different—what’s sexy and desirable for one person might be entirely different for someone else, and that’s what makes it so fascinating.

And while we’re talking body language, here’s another fun fact: Did you know that desire often shows up in the smallest of movements? A slight tilt of the chin, the soft parting of lips, the way the eyes linger just a second too long... All of these little cues add up to create the full picture of longing and allure. It’s subtle, but when it’s done right, it’s pure magic in front of the camera.

Just take a peek at the images below—what do you see? Those subtle curves, that playful glance, or the intensity in their gaze? These are all moments we can recreate together. My specialty is finding your unique flavor of desire and turning it into something truly unforgettable. Whether it’s quiet and smoldering or bold and seductive, I’ll guide you through it all. And by the end of the session, you’ll be feeling like a whole new, irresistible version of yourself.

So, if you’re ready to channel your inner siren and dance with desire in front of the lens, don’t wait. Book your session now, and let’s create some steamy, magical, one-of-a-kind shots that will have you saying, “Is that really me?”

Because yes, babe. Yes, it is. 🔥

Eternal Yearning from the Heart, Photography's Silent Storyteller

Eternal Yearning from the Heart, Photography's Silent Storyteller

This week, Boushie Babes, we're diving into an emotion that might make some of you squirm a bit—and that’s okay! This one’s for those who, like me, find beauty in the bittersweet: longing. Yes, that deep, aching desire we often tuck away, hoping it doesn’t spill out at the most inconvenient times.

But first, let’s get on the same page: what exactly is longing? (Cue the dictionary) Longing is defined as “a strong desire or craving, especially for something unattainable.” Now, doesn’t that hit home? Longing is like that lingering taste of chocolate on your tongue—sweet, yet just out of reach. It’s that little tug at your heart when you think about a dream vacation or a long-lost love. It’s the feeling that makes you sigh when you pass by a bakery and smell freshly baked bread, knowing you promised yourself you’d skip the carbs today.

In photography, longing can manifest in so many different ways. Sometimes it appears almost sad, like a wistful gaze out of a rainy window. Other times, it carries a hint of madness, that wild, desperate yearning we all feel at 3 AM when we’re scrolling through Instagram and thinking, “Why isn’t my life this fabulous?” And then there’s the lustful side of longing—the kind that makes a photograph sizzle with unspoken desire. It can also be otherworldly, creating an ethereal connection that pulls at the strings of your soul.

Longing is one of those emotions that, when captured just right, speaks directly to the heart and soul. It’s not always comfortable, but it’s undeniably beautiful. There’s an art to it, a subtlety that grabs you by the soul and refuses to let go. That’s why I love it—because when you see it in a photograph, it’s like finding a piece of your own heart staring back at you.

Think about it: you can long for anything—a good night’s sleep (who doesn’t?), a much-needed vacation (yes, please!), the perfect lover (aren’t we all?), or even just a meal so divine it gives you a foodgasm (and yes, those are real and worth longing for). Longing isn’t just an emotion; it’s a story waiting to be told, a silent whisper that says so much more than words ever could.

So, do you love longing, or does it make you want to run for the hills? Either way, there’s no denying its power in photography. Below, I’ve put together a gallery that showcases the many flavors of longing—from the tender and sweet to the fierce and fiery. Take a look, and see if it stirs something in you.

Tease, Tempt, and Capture: The Art of Subtle Seduction in Photography

Tease, Tempt, and Capture: The Art of Subtle Seduction in Photography

The art of a subtle glance in a game of seduction—we all know that glance. We’ve all given it a time or two. You know, that look of coy flirtation that says everything without saying a word. Coy flirtation is defined as a playful, teasing manner that suggests attraction or interest, often with an air of shyness or modesty. It’s that look that teases just enough to keep someone guessing, a perfect blend of mystery and allure.

When it comes to photography, capturing that coy, flirtatious vibe is pure magic. It’s one of those timeless expressions that, when done right, can turn a simple photo into something mesmerizing. And let me tell you, ladies, it's one of my all-time favorites to coach and direct you for! The beauty of a coy glance is that it’s all in the subtleties—the slight tilt of the head, the gentle curve of a smile, and, most importantly, the eyes that say so much with so little.

Now, before we dive deeper into the art of coy flirtation, let’s talk a little science. Because, yes, even in the world of photography, science plays a role. Specifically, those wonderful little things called mirror neurons. These neurons are part of our brain's empathy system. When we see someone smile, our mirror neurons light up, making us feel a bit of that joy too. The same goes for that coy, flirtatious glance—when you see it, you feel the allure. That’s why, when you nail that look in your photos, it’s not just a picture; it’s an emotion, a moment that draws people in.

Coy flirtation in photography isn’t about being overt or obvious; it’s about the power of suggestion. It’s that slight hesitation, the almost smile, the eyes that hint at something more. It’s about capturing the essence of playfulness and intrigue in a way that feels authentic and captivating.

But here’s the kicker—I’m not spilling all my secrets here. Nope, you’re going to have to book a session to experience the full magic for yourself! Trust me, though, when I say that I’ve got you covered. I’ll guide you through every step, from that initial shy glance to the perfect coy smile that’ll have everyone wondering what you’re thinking.

So, if you’re ready to channel your inner siren and master the art of subtle seduction through photography, let’s make it happen. In the meantime, take a peek at this gallery of coy flirtation—these are the results you can expect when you step in front of my camera. Because, darling, I’ve got you, and I’m ready to help you tease, tempt, and capture that perfect look.

Ready to create your own gallery of irresistible, flirtatious photos? Let’s do this! Your moment of subtle seduction is just a session away. 💋

Cultivating Confidence: Unleashing Your Inner Strength

Cultivating Confidence: Unleashing Your Inner Strength

Last week, Boushie Babes, I dove into the world of Joy, so it feels only right to turn our attention to Confidence this week. Now, let's be real—who doesn't want to look and feel confident? We all do, right? But how often do we actually feel confident? If you're anything like me, there are days when you have to dig deep and, yes, fake it till you make it. Sound familiar? I can't be the only one riding that wave!

Here's the thing: confidence isn't just a feeling; it's an attitude. The dictionary defines confidence as "a feeling of self-assurance arising from one's appreciation of one's own abilities or qualities." It's about knowing your worth, and even more importantly, it's about showing it to the world. But let's face it—confidence can be elusive. There are times when it feels like you're wearing a mask, projecting strength you don't quite believe in yet.

Take it from me: in most of the images you see where I look strong and confident, I'm usually not feeling that way. At least, not at first. It's only after I strike a few poses or express a particular emotion that I start to embody the confidence I'm portraying. That's the magic of photography—it allows you to step into a version of yourself that you might not fully believe in just yet.

Now, you might be wondering why I have you mimic my poses in the studio, why I ask you to mirror me. It’s not just for fun, though it can be! It’s all about something called mirror neurons. Here’s a bit of science for you: mirror neurons are a group of neurons that fire both when an individual performs an action and when they observe the same action performed by someone else. These neurons are key players in how we learn through imitation and are deeply connected to the empathy we feel when we see others' emotions.

So, when I ask you to copy my movements, I'm actually helping your brain trigger the same emotional response that I'm showing. This means when you mirror my confident stance, your brain starts to fire up those confidence neurons, and before you know it, you're not just looking confident—you are confident. Pretty cool, right?

There’s a real science behind what I do, which is why it works. So, when I tell you to mirror me, trust that it's more than just play-acting. It’s about aligning your body language with your inner strength, even if it takes a few tries to get there. Thanks to my training with Denise Birdsong and the Stripped Down: The Art of Emotion course, I've got a deep understanding of the body language that screams confidence, and I can coach you into that space with ease.

And that, my friends, is why I can help you project confidence in your photos—even if you don’t feel it right away. The magic happens in that moment when you realize you’ve got it, that you are owning your space, and that the confidence is no longer just a pose—it’s you. So, whether you're stepping into my studio or just tackling your day, remember: confidence is more than a look, it's an energy. And trust me, you’ve got it in spades.

Check out these flavors of confidence below:

Capturing Emotions: My Journey Through Selfies and Beyond

Capturing Emotions: My Journey Through Selfies and Beyond

Hey Boushie Babes,

Can you guess what the homework was this week? Yes, selfies! That’s right, I had to take selfies, or sometimes hand the camera over to my assistant, to demonstrate the core emotions we aim for in our sessions. This exercise helps me coach you, my clients, to express those same emotions and even more when you step into my studio.

So, what emotions are we covering this week? Joy, confidence (yes, you can coach for confidence!), coy flirtation, longing, states of pleasure, and states of desire. Sounds interesting, right? Like, how and what? No way! But trust me, after a few years of practice, it becomes second nature.

The fun part of this assignment is the continuous learning and growth it brings. By practicing these emotions, I not only grow as an artist but also give you, my clients, the agency to be who you are in front of the camera. It's about capturing the real you, your genuine emotions, and your unique beauty.

I’m sharing a slideshow of my full gallery from this homework, which showcases all my flavors, more than what’s taught in the class. I would love to get some feedback from you. What do you feel when you see these photos? What emotions do you see?

Your insights and feedback mean the world to me. It's through this shared journey that we all grow and become more in tune with our emotions and our true selves.

Stay tuned for more exciting updates and artistic explorations. Your support and engagement inspire me every day. Let’s keep this creative energy flowing!
Watch the full slideshow of my gallery of my homework this week below, don’t forget to let me know what emotions you see as well.

Slideshow

Thank you for being a part of this journey with me. Your love and feedback keep me motivated and inspired!

With love,

Accalia Carter

Boushie Babes Photography Mission Statement 🌟

At Boushie Babes Photography, our mission transcends the realm of capturing moments – it's about orchestrating an experience that empowers, celebrates, and reveals the unique beauty within each individual. We believe in the transformative power of genuine connection, the kind that goes beyond the click of a camera.

Our lens doesn't just freeze time; it narrates stories, weaves dreams, and paints portraits of authenticity. We are devoted to unraveling the multitudes within you, capturing the nuances, the laughter, the vulnerability, and the strength that make you who you are.

In this space, we redefine photography as a celebration of self-expression, self-love, and the kaleidoscope of emotions that define your journey. We specialize in coaching moments, not just capturing them, ensuring that each image is a mirror reflecting the truest version of your essence.

What do you think?

Feel free to share youhr toughts and emotions in the comments.

Let’s continue to inspire and uplift each other!

Embrace Your Light and Dark: Exclusive Storytelling Sessions at Boushie Babes

Embrace Your Light and Dark: Exclusive Storytelling Sessions at Boushie Babes

Hello Boushie Babes,

I'm thrilled to announce our new Light and Dark sessions, designed to tell your unique story through powerful imagery. At Boushie Babes, we believe in celebrating all facets of your personality – the light and the dark, the bold and the subtle, the bright and the mysterious.

What to Expect:

• Two Outfit Changes: Showcase your versatility and style.

• Multiple Set Changes: Experience varied backdrops at our studio or a summer location that perfectly captures your essence.

• Pre-Session Zoom Call: Get personalized outfit selection assistance to ensure you look and feel your best. Don't worry, we're all for packing multiple options!

• Unbeatable Price: For just $199, you get a session packed with love and care. Add hair and makeup for only $100 extra.

These sessions are not just about creating beautiful images; they also support my continuing education as I take another class this year. If you're willing to sign a model release, you'll receive 5 included images as a thank-you for helping with my class!

Why Book Now?

• Limited-Time Offer: Summer is already booked out, so this exclusive deal won’t last long.

• Mini Sessions, Major Impact: Despite being mini sessions, they are filled with personalized attention and care, making it a steal of a deal.

Don't wait for the perfect moment. Create it. Celebrate yourself now with this one-of-a-kind experience.

Ready to Embrace Your Light and Dark? Book a free call with me to discuss your session and secure your spot. This is a limited-time offer, and these sessions are booking fast.

Book Your Free Call Now

Let’s capture your story together – every light and dark moment, with all the love and care you deserve.

With love and excitement,

Accalia

Boushie Babes Photography

P.S. Thank you for the nomination for Best of Bonner County Again for the 3rd year in a row don’t forget to vote!!!

When Food Becomes the Enemy: Anathea’s Battle with Health and Finding Harmony

This week, Boushie Babes, I want to say is less but it’s more for me at least, because its close to home as well, it’s about my daughter again, she came in and wanted to tell her story more…

And if you know our family we do things big around here, go big or go home, and in this case, she did both…

This was a storytelling session, these can go long or short, just depending on the story being told.

She wanted to tell about the struggle of eating for her, it’s been hard and kept her small, and barely able to keep weight on and at times not even able to do that.

This session was about all of that and the comeback she is making, in the natural way….

A picture is worth a thousand words so….

This past year has been a rollercoaster for my daughter, Anathea, as she faced some significant health challenges. It’s been a journey filled with uncertainty, frustration, and, ultimately, hope.

Imagine waiting months just to see a doctor, only to be met with quick fixes that don’t address the root of the problem. That’s been Anathea’s reality. She’s often faced doctors who focus solely on masking symptoms with medication or suggesting invasive surgeries without exploring every other option first. It's a fragmented approach to health that has left us both feeling frustrated and lost at times.

Anathea’s illness is invisible, making it all the more challenging. People can’t see the pain she’s in, so they make assumptions and jump to conclusions about her. They don’t understand the battles she fights daily, which can lead to unfair judgments. It’s a lonely experience, dealing with something so profound that isn’t immediately visible to the outside world.

However, Anathea has been blessed with an incredibly loving and supportive community. She’s worked hard to build this network of caring individuals who have been there for her through thick and thin. Their love and support have been nothing short of lifesaving. With their encouragement, she has finally found a treatment that seems to be working. Without their unwavering support, she would have felt lost.

It’s not easy to be open and share personal struggles, but Anathea has learned that it’s crucial. When you have good people in your life, they want to know what you’re going through. They want to support and help in any way they can. It’s important to let them in and not try to go through it alone. You don’t have to.

Anathea’s journey has taught us both a valuable lesson: even when it feels like you’ve hit rock bottom, there is always a way up. Her resilience and the love of her community have been the guiding light through the darkest times. She inspires me every day with her courage and determination.

For anyone out there facing similar struggles, remember this: you are not alone. Reach out to those who care about you. Share your story. Allow them to help. With the right support, you can find the strength to keep moving forward.

🌟 Boushie Babes Photography Mission Statement 🌟

At Boushie Babes Photography, our mission transcends the realm of capturing moments – it's about orchestrating an experience that empowers, celebrates, and reveals the unique beauty within each individual. We believe in the transformative power of genuine connection, the kind that goes beyond the click of a camera.

Our lens doesn't just freeze time; it narrates stories, weaves dreams, and paints portraits of authenticity. We are devoted to unraveling the multitudes within you, capturing the nuances, the laughter, the vulnerability, and the strength that make you who you are.

In this space, we redefine photography as a celebration of self-expression, self-love, and the kaleidoscope of emotions that define your journey. We specialize in coaching moments, not just capturing them, ensuring that each image is a mirror reflecting the truest version of your essence.

From Distorted to Real: Understanding Body Dysmorphia and Finding Self-Love

Hello Boushie Babes,

Today we are going to talk about body dysmorphia and self-reflection. Did you know that I and our brand ambassadors struggle with body dysmorphia on some level? So what is body dysmorphia?

Body dysmorphic disorder

Also called: BDD, body dysmorphia

A mental illness involving obsessive focus on a perceived flaw in appearance.

The flaw may be minor or imagined. But the person may spend hours a day trying to fix it. The person may try many cosmetic procedures or exercise to excess.

People with this disorder may frequently examine their appearance in a mirror, constantly compare their appearance with that of others, and avoid social situations or photos.

I learned that over the years doing Boudoir most women have some level of BDD, and most don’t even know it, like me. I worked out all the time, I felt a need to just be better, and look better, was never happy with how good I looked, regardless of my weight. Especially after I had kids and my body changed man was that hard to learn to accept my body as it was then instead of how it was before all youthful, it was kind of deflated.

Callie, is struggling to love her new body after losing weight and being smaller than she has ever been as an adult, and it’s been hard this year, which is why she is a brand ambassador to help her learn to love all her new curves and lines she didn’t have before, she’s doing it to document her story too, and help any of you on your journey too.

My point is young, old, small, or big, you can have and struggle with body image I think we all do to some degree, and if we say we don’t we are lying to ourselves, It is a journey for sure, and some days are better than others. So, let’s inspire each other and help each other to love ourselves a bit more on our journeys, below are a few tips on how to deal with BDD, but I want to first say the biggest one is to get help from a licensed professional like a doctor or therapist, I am not that, I am a just someone who struggles herself and wants to helps others along the way however I can.

Full disclaimer: I am not a therapist, so please seek professional help if you need that level of help.

These are things that have helped me or my clients, or I have been told to try, or I have read somewhere that could help with body image.

Ever feel like your view is upside down?

Helpful Tips for Managing Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD)

1. Mirror Work: Spend a few minutes each day looking at yourself in the mirror and practicing positive affirmations. Focus on appreciating your body for what it can do and finding features you like about yourself. This practice can help reframe your self-perception and foster a more positive body image.

2. Journaling: Write down your thoughts and feelings about your body. Use your journal to identify negative thought patterns and replace them with positive ones. Reflect on your progress and celebrate small victories in self-acceptance.

3. Counseling: Seek the support of a licensed therapist or counselor who specializes in body dysmorphic disorder or body image issues. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) is particularly effective in addressing the distorted thoughts associated with BDD.

4. Boudoir Photoshoot Series: Consider scheduling a boudoir photoshoot to see yourself from a different perspective. A skilled photographer can capture your beauty in ways you might not see yourself, helping you appreciate your body in a new light.

5. Sexual Healing Work: Engage in sexual healing practices to reclaim and reconnect with parts of yourself that you may feel disconnected from. This could include tantra, bodywork, or other forms of therapy designed to help you embrace your body and sexuality in a healthy, positive way.

6. Mindfulness and Meditation: Practice mindfulness and meditation to become more aware of your thoughts and feelings without judgment. This can help you develop a more compassionate relationship with your body and reduce the intensity of negative self-perceptions.

7. Physical Activity: Engage in regular physical activity that you enjoy. Exercise can boost your mood, improve your self-esteem, and help you feel more connected to your body. Choose activities that make you feel good, whether it's yoga, dancing, hiking, or swimming.

8. Support Groups: Join a support group for people with body dysmorphic disorder or body image issues. Sharing your experiences with others who understand can provide comfort, reduce feelings of isolation, and offer practical tips for managing BDD.

By incorporating these practices into your life, you can begin to shift your perspective on your body, foster self-acceptance, and ultimately improve your mental and emotional well-being.

I don’t think there is one right way to do things so try things out and find out what works for you, I have also learned that if down the line you have to reevaluate things and change things that’s okay too, I think it’s part of the journey, pivoting, and adjusting.

If you are a woman Join us in Boushie Babes Haven on Facebook, this is a ladies-only group. I don’t have a group for men yet just know my page is a safe place for anybody. Just be respectful.

A Heartfelt Mother-Daughter Session: Cherishing Our Bond

A Heartfelt Mother-Daughter Session: Cherishing Our Bond

Hello lovely people,

This past week, I experienced a deeply personal and emotional moment that I wanted to share with you all. My daughter, Anathea, and I finally found time to do our long-awaited mother-daughter photo session. We had been planning this for months, but our schedules just hadn't aligned. Between work, health issues, and life’s endless demands, it felt like the universe was conspiring against us. But last week, everything fell into place. Neither of us was sick or recovering from surgeries, so we seized the opportunity.

Before I dive into the details, I want to express my immense gratitude to my daughter for allowing me to share her story. Anathea hopes that by opening up about her journey, she might help someone else out there facing similar challenges.

As we sat down in the studio to catch up, it felt like time stood still. Life gets busy, and sometimes we take breaks from our deep conversations, but this was our moment to reconnect. We laughed, we cried, and we hugged—really hugged. We cherished our bond in both new and old ways. Anathea began to open up about her ongoing battle with her health, particularly her struggles with eating. It's been a long, painful journey for her.

Anathea was lactose intolerant as a teen, which then evolved into gluten intolerance. Now, it has progressed to the point where she can hardly keep water down most days. As a mother, watching your child struggle with such severe issues is heartbreaking. She had an eating disorder in her teens, which she bravely fought and overcame. She loves food, but her body doesn’t allow her to enjoy it anymore. She’s facing the possibility of more surgeries and might even need a feeding tube at just 25 years old.

These are not the conversations you ever imagined having with your child. Yet, there we were, discussing her health challenges while capturing moments that are now frozen in time. The photos from this session are powerful and raw. They remind me of the unbreakable bond between mothers and daughters—a bond for which I am eternally grateful. Looking at these images still brings tears to my eyes.

Our session was about more than just taking beautiful pictures; it was about capturing the essence of our relationship, the highs and lows, the shared tears and laughter, and the unwavering support we have for each other. Anathea’s journey is a testament to resilience. Despite her struggles, she continues to shine with a light that inspires everyone around her.

This summer is packed with family obligations, work, and sessions with wonderful clients. But amidst the chaos, I want to make sure to share more stories like mine and Anathea’s. Stories of strength, vulnerability, and love. Each session I photograph has its own unique story, and I want to highlight the beauty in each of those stories.

If there’s one thing I’ve learned from this experience, it’s the importance of cherishing every moment. Life can be unpredictable, and sometimes it throws curveballs that seem insurmountable. But it’s in these moments of vulnerability that we find our true strength and the depth of our connections.

To anyone reading this who might be going through similar struggles, know that you are not alone. There is always hope, and there is always someone who cares. Anathea’s story is a reminder that even in the darkest times, there is light to be found. And sometimes, that light comes from the bonds we share with those we love.

Thank you for allowing me to share this deeply personal story. It’s a reminder of why I do what I do—capturing not just images, but the stories and emotions behind them.

Stay tuned for more stories, more laughter, and yes, even more tears. Because in sharing these moments, we find connection, understanding, and healing.

With love and gratitude,

Accalia Carter
Boushie Babes Photography

Embracing Light and Dark: A Session with My Brand Ambassador Sharnai

Embracing Light and Dark: A Session with My Brand Ambassador Sharnai

Hello lovely people!

This past weekend, I had an incredible session with my brand ambassador, Sharnai. Even during our content creation sessions, which are primarily for my portfolio, I always make sure my models have a say in what we do. It’s a collaboration, after all! Sharnai had been itching for an outdoor shoot after spending so much time in the studio. I completely understood—we both needed a change of scenery. With spring and summer in full bloom here in the Northwest, it was the perfect time to venture outside.

We decided to shoot on the property where Sharnai is staying. At first, she was a bit indifferent, having seen the place every day. But as soon as I set eyes on it, I knew we were in for something special. The day was overcast—ideal for photography. Bright sun can be such a mood killer with its harsh lighting, but the diffused light from the clouds was perfect.

Of course, the weather was a bit chilly and rainy, typical Northwest style. Sharnai gets cold easily, so we kept a blanket on hand and took shelter from the rain when necessary. She brought two dresses: a white one and a black one. She wanted to explore the light and dark aspects of her personality, embracing the full spectrum of her being. This wasn’t just about aesthetics; it was about capturing the essence of who she is, beyond good and bad, just her true self.

We started with the white dress. The soft fabric flowed beautifully against the green backdrop. Sharnai moved with such grace, and the overcast sky gave her a gentle glow. But then came the black dress. It was striking against the vibrant scenery, symbolizing strength and depth. As we moved from one spot to another, we stumbled upon some horses. That’s when things got really interesting!

Horses have a way of adding a majestic touch to any shoot. Sharnai was thrilled, but also a bit wary. There was one moment where she nearly got kicked by one of the horses—yes, we got it on video! (I haven’t finished editing it yet, but stay tuned for that epic outtake). Despite the unexpected adventure, we got some fantastic shots. I even got to practice my photography skills, particularly the rule of thirds, and by the end of the session, I was nailing shots left and right. I couldn’t have been prouder of the results.

This session was a reminder of why I love outdoor shoots so much. They bring an element of unpredictability and raw beauty that you just can’t replicate in a studio. Plus, I get to flex my creative muscles and adapt to whatever nature throws our way.

I’ll be sharing more from this session on my socials soon, including some behind-the-scenes reels. Outdoor summer sessions are truly magical, and the best part is, we don’t need much space to make them happen. Whether we’re out on a beautiful property or right here at the studio, we can create something amazing together.

Now is the perfect time to book your session. Remember, Boushie Babes Photography won’t be here next summer, so don’t miss out on capturing your own stunning moments.

Stay tuned for more, and thank you for being part of this journey!

Warmly,

Accalia Carter
Boushie Babes Photography

I am a Boushie Babe!

I am a strong empowered Goddess!

I embrace my divine feminine and all that she creates!

I make time to nourish my body, mind, and soul daily!

I empower others along the way!

I am a Boushie Babe!!!

🌟 Boushie Babes Photography Mission Statement 🌟

At Boushie Babes Photography, our mission transcends the realm of capturing moments – it's about orchestrating an experience that empowers, celebrates, and reveals the unique beauty within each individual. We believe in the transformative power of genuine connection, the kind that goes beyond the click of a camera.

Our lens doesn't just freeze time; it narrates stories, weaves dreams, and paints portraits of authenticity. We are devoted to unraveling the multitudes within you, capturing the nuances, the laughter, the vulnerability, and the strength that make you who you are.

In this space, we redefine photography as a celebration of self-expression, self-love, and the kaleidoscope of emotions that define your journey. We specialize in coaching moments, not just capturing them, ensuring that each image is a mirror reflecting the truest version of your essence.

Embracing the Goddess Rising: A Daily Practice for Inner and Outer Well-being

Embracing the Goddess Rising: A Daily Practice for Inner and Outer Well-being

In our fast-paced world, finding a daily ritual that centers and rejuvenates us is essential. For me, this practice is my "Goddess Rising" routine. It's a sacred time each morning that fills my cup so I can better serve others, helps maintain a healthy lifestyle for longevity, and creates space for healing, ensuring I don't carry past hurts forward. This practice is not just a luxury; it’s a necessity for my well-being.

The Importance of a Morning Routine

Why is my Goddess Rising practice so important? Here are a few reasons:

1. Creating a Cup-Filling Morning: Starting the day with intention sets the tone for everything that follows. By taking time for myself, I can approach my work and interactions with a full heart and mind, ready to give my best.

2. Maintaining a Healthy Lifestyle for Longevity: Consistent routines help establish habits that support long-term health. This practice ensures I prioritize my physical and mental health daily, promoting a balanced and sustainable lifestyle.

3. Healing and Emotional Release: By dedicating time each day to self-care, I create a space to process and release emotions. This prevents me from carrying unresolved feelings into the future, allowing for personal growth and healing.

My Goddess Rising Routine

Here’s a glimpse into my daily practice:

Waking Up Early

I wake up at 4:44 AM, six days a week. This specific time resonates with me, though I listen to my body and allow for extra sleep when needed. Sleep is crucial, so I aim to be in bed by 10 PM to ensure I’m well-rested.

Hydration and Hygiene

Upon waking, I drink a glass of water to rehydrate. Then, I brush my teeth and use a neti pot. This routine clears my sinuses and helps me start the day with a clear head.

Morning Affirmations

As I prepare for the day, I listen to my morning affirmations recording. These positive statements set a powerful and uplifting tone for my day, reinforcing my intentions and mindset.

Workout and Stretching

Physical activity is a key part of my routine, especially given my degenerative back condition. I engage in a workout and stretch routine tailored to my needs, which helps manage my condition and keep me active.

Hot Bath and Cold Shower

After my workout, I take a hot bath to relax my muscles. This is followed by a cold shower, which is particularly beneficial as I navigate pre-menopause. The contrast of hot and cold helps regulate my body and invigorate my senses.

Why This Routine Matters

In today’s busy world, having a structured morning practice is a must. It provides a sense of stability and control, no matter what the day brings. By investing in myself first thing in the morning, I ensure I am at my best for my clients, my loved ones, and myself. This Goddess Rising practice is my foundation for a balanced, healthy, and fulfilled life.

Adopting a morning routine that resonates with you can transform your life. It doesn't have to look exactly like mine; what matters is finding what fills your cup and sustains your well-being. Here's to rising each day with the energy, peace, and intention of a goddess.

I am a Boushie Babe!

I am a strong empowered Goddess!

I embrace my divine feminine and all that she creates!

I make time to nourish my body, mind, and soul daily!

I empower others along the way!

I am a Boushie Babe!!!

Grounding for Growth: Harnessing Inner Energy to Thrive

Dive into the transformative world of grounding and energy movement with this expert-crafted exercise. As someone deeply versed in energy work, I've developed this practice to guide you toward profound self-connection and healing.

Find your cozy spot, whether seated or reclined and set the ambiance with a flickering candle or the simple act of closing your eyes. Remember, there's no one-size-fits-all approach here; the key is to make it uniquely yours. Each day is different too, so one day you may lie down and one day you may want to sit, both are fine.

Begin with three deep, intentional breaths, allowing each inhale to infuse you with relaxation and each exhale to melt away tension. Tune into your body's whispers, embracing any movements that feel instinctive and natural. I like to stretch and move my body as needed, like rolling my head, shaking my arms out, shaking my legs out, and Isometric muscle moments.

Return to the center with another deep breath, visualizing a sturdy cord extending from your root chakra deep into the nurturing core of Mother Earth. Feel the grounding energy rising through this cord, anchoring you firmly to the healing embrace of the earth. Simultaneously, imagine another cord extending skyward, drawing down celestial light codes to ignite your inner radiance. I like to take several deep breaths here and just soak in the energy and ground my energy here.

Envision yourself enveloped in a shimmering golden bubble, saturating every cell with luminous love and healing energy. Bask in the warmth of this radiant cocoon, letting it soothe past wounds and illuminate your path forward. I also use the golden light to cut cords and things from my energy field as well here, and this helps so much as an empath, and sensitive.

I like to repeat the empowering affirmation, "This or something greater, so mote it be," sealing your intentions for profound healing and growth. When you're ready, gently return to the present moment, feeling refreshed and anchored in your newfound energy.

How do you feel now? Share your experiences in the comments below, and if you're eager to explore more energy work practices, I'm here to accompany you on your journey. Let's dive deeper together into the boundless realms of self-discovery and transformation.