Pure Delight: From Laughter to Lust – Photography's Dance with Pleasure

Pure Delight: From Laughter to Lust – Photography's Dance with Pleasure

This week, Boushie Babes, we’re diving deep into the essence of pleasure and how to capture it in its many forms—whether it’s a sultry, sexy smirk or that pure, uncontrollable laughter that lights up a room.

Let’s be honest—pleasure is something we often overlook in the hustle and bustle of life. We’re so focused on getting through the day, ticking off our to-do lists, and fulfilling responsibilities, that we forget to simply revel in life’s moments of joy. But here’s the thing—pleasure is worth celebrating. And in photography, when it's done right, it’s one of the most captivating, natural looks that bring an image to life. Whether it’s laughter, contentment, serenity, or sensuality, pleasure comes in so many states, and that’s what makes it so beautiful to capture.

Now, how do we bring that authentic feeling of pleasure into a photograph without it looking staged or awkward? Well, darling, that’s my secret sauce, and I’m not spilling all the tea today—you’ll have to book a session with me for the full experience! But what I will say is this: I’ve got a way of helping you let go, relax, and feel more at ease in your own body than you have in a long time. It’s a process of trust and release, and once you’re in that flow, it’s like magic. You won’t just see it in your photos—you’ll feel it in your bones. And the best part? No waiting around. You get to see your stunning images that very day, fresh off the camera, so you can immediately witness the beauty of your authentic self.

Let's talk about the idea of pleasure for a moment. We hear the word and instantly think it’s something taboo, something forbidden. But pleasure is so much more than that—it’s about savoring life. So, what exactly is pleasure? (Cue the witty definition here). Pleasure, defined as “the state of being pleased, gratified, or satisfied,” isn’t just about the obvious—it’s the simple things too. Ever had a bite of food so good you let out a little moan without realizing it? Yeah, me too. That’s a state of pleasure. Waking up after a full night of uninterrupted sleep and feeling completely rested—bliss. Sinking into a perfectly hot bath that melts your stress away—absolute heaven.

These are the moments we don’t often think of as pleasure, but they absolutely are. It’s not always about desire or sensuality—it’s about feeling good in whatever form that takes for you. And that is what I love about photography. It allows us to capture those moments of pure delight, no matter what brings them about.

When you come in for a session, we’re going to explore what makes you feel good. We’ll bring out the laughter, the serenity, and yes, even that sensual, come-hither glance if that’s your vibe. I’ve worked with so many women who walked in feeling unsure of how they’d look or feel in front of the camera, but trust me when I say—I’ve got you. We’ll create an atmosphere where you can just be, and I’ll be there to guide you every step of the way to capture your pleasure in its truest form.

Not all pleasure is about lust—it’s about living in the moment, feeling the warmth of the sun on your skin, and embracing whatever makes you come alive. So, let go of those outdated ways of thinking. There’s no shame in showing off your pleasure, in any form it comes in.

Now, scroll down and take a look at some of these incredible women who’ve owned their pleasure, whether it’s through laughter, longing, or that sultry look that says “I know my worth.” This is your permission slip to feel good, to celebrate the beauty of pleasure, and to let the camera tell your story in a way that’s true to you.

Whispers of Want: The Dance of Desire

Whispers of Want: The Dance of Desire

This week, Boushie Babes, we're turning up the heat—seriously, is it getting hot in here? 🔥 We’re diving headfirst into those sultry looks, those come hither bedroom eyes, the looks that could melt even the iciest of hearts. Oh yes, we're talking about desire.

You know what I’m talking about: those steamy, intense gazes that make a photo feel alive with passion. Have you ever looked at a picture and wondered how on earth the pros make those come hither glances seem so effortless, so uncoached? Well, honey, I can’t spill all the tea right here, but let me just say—I can get you there. That's right, I’ll be your personal guide, coaching and directing you to master that you know you want this look for your session. Trust me, boo, I’ve got you covered!

But first, let’s break it down a little. What exactly is desire, you ask? Here’s a quick and witty definition for you: Desire – "That overwhelming feeling that you need something—or someone—right this very moment, preferably draped in a little mystery and a whole lot of seduction." It’s that slow burn, that magnetic pull, the thing that makes us lean in just a little closer, both in life and in photography.

So how does that translate into your session? Let me tell you a secret: desire isn’t just one note—it’s a whole symphony. And just like music, it comes in different flavors and volumes. Sometimes, it’s that quiet, smoldering stare. Other times, it’s bold and unapologetic, like I dare you energy. It can be soft, intimate, or downright fiery. The key is finding your range, and that’s where my magic comes in.

When you step into my studio, we’re not just snapping photos. Oh no, we’re collaborating to create art. I’m here to help you explore the spectrum of desire, guiding you to find your unique expression of it. Because everyone’s version of passion is a little different—what’s sexy and desirable for one person might be entirely different for someone else, and that’s what makes it so fascinating.

And while we’re talking body language, here’s another fun fact: Did you know that desire often shows up in the smallest of movements? A slight tilt of the chin, the soft parting of lips, the way the eyes linger just a second too long... All of these little cues add up to create the full picture of longing and allure. It’s subtle, but when it’s done right, it’s pure magic in front of the camera.

Just take a peek at the images below—what do you see? Those subtle curves, that playful glance, or the intensity in their gaze? These are all moments we can recreate together. My specialty is finding your unique flavor of desire and turning it into something truly unforgettable. Whether it’s quiet and smoldering or bold and seductive, I’ll guide you through it all. And by the end of the session, you’ll be feeling like a whole new, irresistible version of yourself.

So, if you’re ready to channel your inner siren and dance with desire in front of the lens, don’t wait. Book your session now, and let’s create some steamy, magical, one-of-a-kind shots that will have you saying, “Is that really me?”

Because yes, babe. Yes, it is. 🔥

Eternal Yearning from the Heart, Photography's Silent Storyteller

Eternal Yearning from the Heart, Photography's Silent Storyteller

This week, Boushie Babes, we're diving into an emotion that might make some of you squirm a bit—and that’s okay! This one’s for those who, like me, find beauty in the bittersweet: longing. Yes, that deep, aching desire we often tuck away, hoping it doesn’t spill out at the most inconvenient times.

But first, let’s get on the same page: what exactly is longing? (Cue the dictionary) Longing is defined as “a strong desire or craving, especially for something unattainable.” Now, doesn’t that hit home? Longing is like that lingering taste of chocolate on your tongue—sweet, yet just out of reach. It’s that little tug at your heart when you think about a dream vacation or a long-lost love. It’s the feeling that makes you sigh when you pass by a bakery and smell freshly baked bread, knowing you promised yourself you’d skip the carbs today.

In photography, longing can manifest in so many different ways. Sometimes it appears almost sad, like a wistful gaze out of a rainy window. Other times, it carries a hint of madness, that wild, desperate yearning we all feel at 3 AM when we’re scrolling through Instagram and thinking, “Why isn’t my life this fabulous?” And then there’s the lustful side of longing—the kind that makes a photograph sizzle with unspoken desire. It can also be otherworldly, creating an ethereal connection that pulls at the strings of your soul.

Longing is one of those emotions that, when captured just right, speaks directly to the heart and soul. It’s not always comfortable, but it’s undeniably beautiful. There’s an art to it, a subtlety that grabs you by the soul and refuses to let go. That’s why I love it—because when you see it in a photograph, it’s like finding a piece of your own heart staring back at you.

Think about it: you can long for anything—a good night’s sleep (who doesn’t?), a much-needed vacation (yes, please!), the perfect lover (aren’t we all?), or even just a meal so divine it gives you a foodgasm (and yes, those are real and worth longing for). Longing isn’t just an emotion; it’s a story waiting to be told, a silent whisper that says so much more than words ever could.

So, do you love longing, or does it make you want to run for the hills? Either way, there’s no denying its power in photography. Below, I’ve put together a gallery that showcases the many flavors of longing—from the tender and sweet to the fierce and fiery. Take a look, and see if it stirs something in you.

Tease, Tempt, and Capture: The Art of Subtle Seduction in Photography

Tease, Tempt, and Capture: The Art of Subtle Seduction in Photography

The art of a subtle glance in a game of seduction—we all know that glance. We’ve all given it a time or two. You know, that look of coy flirtation that says everything without saying a word. Coy flirtation is defined as a playful, teasing manner that suggests attraction or interest, often with an air of shyness or modesty. It’s that look that teases just enough to keep someone guessing, a perfect blend of mystery and allure.

When it comes to photography, capturing that coy, flirtatious vibe is pure magic. It’s one of those timeless expressions that, when done right, can turn a simple photo into something mesmerizing. And let me tell you, ladies, it's one of my all-time favorites to coach and direct you for! The beauty of a coy glance is that it’s all in the subtleties—the slight tilt of the head, the gentle curve of a smile, and, most importantly, the eyes that say so much with so little.

Now, before we dive deeper into the art of coy flirtation, let’s talk a little science. Because, yes, even in the world of photography, science plays a role. Specifically, those wonderful little things called mirror neurons. These neurons are part of our brain's empathy system. When we see someone smile, our mirror neurons light up, making us feel a bit of that joy too. The same goes for that coy, flirtatious glance—when you see it, you feel the allure. That’s why, when you nail that look in your photos, it’s not just a picture; it’s an emotion, a moment that draws people in.

Coy flirtation in photography isn’t about being overt or obvious; it’s about the power of suggestion. It’s that slight hesitation, the almost smile, the eyes that hint at something more. It’s about capturing the essence of playfulness and intrigue in a way that feels authentic and captivating.

But here’s the kicker—I’m not spilling all my secrets here. Nope, you’re going to have to book a session to experience the full magic for yourself! Trust me, though, when I say that I’ve got you covered. I’ll guide you through every step, from that initial shy glance to the perfect coy smile that’ll have everyone wondering what you’re thinking.

So, if you’re ready to channel your inner siren and master the art of subtle seduction through photography, let’s make it happen. In the meantime, take a peek at this gallery of coy flirtation—these are the results you can expect when you step in front of my camera. Because, darling, I’ve got you, and I’m ready to help you tease, tempt, and capture that perfect look.

Ready to create your own gallery of irresistible, flirtatious photos? Let’s do this! Your moment of subtle seduction is just a session away. 💋

Cultivating Confidence: Unleashing Your Inner Strength

Cultivating Confidence: Unleashing Your Inner Strength

Last week, Boushie Babes, I dove into the world of Joy, so it feels only right to turn our attention to Confidence this week. Now, let's be real—who doesn't want to look and feel confident? We all do, right? But how often do we actually feel confident? If you're anything like me, there are days when you have to dig deep and, yes, fake it till you make it. Sound familiar? I can't be the only one riding that wave!

Here's the thing: confidence isn't just a feeling; it's an attitude. The dictionary defines confidence as "a feeling of self-assurance arising from one's appreciation of one's own abilities or qualities." It's about knowing your worth, and even more importantly, it's about showing it to the world. But let's face it—confidence can be elusive. There are times when it feels like you're wearing a mask, projecting strength you don't quite believe in yet.

Take it from me: in most of the images you see where I look strong and confident, I'm usually not feeling that way. At least, not at first. It's only after I strike a few poses or express a particular emotion that I start to embody the confidence I'm portraying. That's the magic of photography—it allows you to step into a version of yourself that you might not fully believe in just yet.

Now, you might be wondering why I have you mimic my poses in the studio, why I ask you to mirror me. It’s not just for fun, though it can be! It’s all about something called mirror neurons. Here’s a bit of science for you: mirror neurons are a group of neurons that fire both when an individual performs an action and when they observe the same action performed by someone else. These neurons are key players in how we learn through imitation and are deeply connected to the empathy we feel when we see others' emotions.

So, when I ask you to copy my movements, I'm actually helping your brain trigger the same emotional response that I'm showing. This means when you mirror my confident stance, your brain starts to fire up those confidence neurons, and before you know it, you're not just looking confident—you are confident. Pretty cool, right?

There’s a real science behind what I do, which is why it works. So, when I tell you to mirror me, trust that it's more than just play-acting. It’s about aligning your body language with your inner strength, even if it takes a few tries to get there. Thanks to my training with Denise Birdsong and the Stripped Down: The Art of Emotion course, I've got a deep understanding of the body language that screams confidence, and I can coach you into that space with ease.

And that, my friends, is why I can help you project confidence in your photos—even if you don’t feel it right away. The magic happens in that moment when you realize you’ve got it, that you are owning your space, and that the confidence is no longer just a pose—it’s you. So, whether you're stepping into my studio or just tackling your day, remember: confidence is more than a look, it's an energy. And trust me, you’ve got it in spades.

Check out these flavors of confidence below:

A Heartfelt Mother-Daughter Session: Cherishing Our Bond

A Heartfelt Mother-Daughter Session: Cherishing Our Bond

Hello lovely people,

This past week, I experienced a deeply personal and emotional moment that I wanted to share with you all. My daughter, Anathea, and I finally found time to do our long-awaited mother-daughter photo session. We had been planning this for months, but our schedules just hadn't aligned. Between work, health issues, and life’s endless demands, it felt like the universe was conspiring against us. But last week, everything fell into place. Neither of us was sick or recovering from surgeries, so we seized the opportunity.

Before I dive into the details, I want to express my immense gratitude to my daughter for allowing me to share her story. Anathea hopes that by opening up about her journey, she might help someone else out there facing similar challenges.

As we sat down in the studio to catch up, it felt like time stood still. Life gets busy, and sometimes we take breaks from our deep conversations, but this was our moment to reconnect. We laughed, we cried, and we hugged—really hugged. We cherished our bond in both new and old ways. Anathea began to open up about her ongoing battle with her health, particularly her struggles with eating. It's been a long, painful journey for her.

Anathea was lactose intolerant as a teen, which then evolved into gluten intolerance. Now, it has progressed to the point where she can hardly keep water down most days. As a mother, watching your child struggle with such severe issues is heartbreaking. She had an eating disorder in her teens, which she bravely fought and overcame. She loves food, but her body doesn’t allow her to enjoy it anymore. She’s facing the possibility of more surgeries and might even need a feeding tube at just 25 years old.

These are not the conversations you ever imagined having with your child. Yet, there we were, discussing her health challenges while capturing moments that are now frozen in time. The photos from this session are powerful and raw. They remind me of the unbreakable bond between mothers and daughters—a bond for which I am eternally grateful. Looking at these images still brings tears to my eyes.

Our session was about more than just taking beautiful pictures; it was about capturing the essence of our relationship, the highs and lows, the shared tears and laughter, and the unwavering support we have for each other. Anathea’s journey is a testament to resilience. Despite her struggles, she continues to shine with a light that inspires everyone around her.

This summer is packed with family obligations, work, and sessions with wonderful clients. But amidst the chaos, I want to make sure to share more stories like mine and Anathea’s. Stories of strength, vulnerability, and love. Each session I photograph has its own unique story, and I want to highlight the beauty in each of those stories.

If there’s one thing I’ve learned from this experience, it’s the importance of cherishing every moment. Life can be unpredictable, and sometimes it throws curveballs that seem insurmountable. But it’s in these moments of vulnerability that we find our true strength and the depth of our connections.

To anyone reading this who might be going through similar struggles, know that you are not alone. There is always hope, and there is always someone who cares. Anathea’s story is a reminder that even in the darkest times, there is light to be found. And sometimes, that light comes from the bonds we share with those we love.

Thank you for allowing me to share this deeply personal story. It’s a reminder of why I do what I do—capturing not just images, but the stories and emotions behind them.

Stay tuned for more stories, more laughter, and yes, even more tears. Because in sharing these moments, we find connection, understanding, and healing.

With love and gratitude,

Accalia Carter
Boushie Babes Photography

Fuck Shame.....Still I rise....

shame

/SHām/

noun

1. a painful feeling of humiliation or distress caused by the consciousness of wrong or foolish behavior.

   "she was hot with shame"

verb

1. (of a person, action, or situation) make (someone) feel ashamed.

   "I tried to shame him into giving some away"

Shame is also a feeling of I am bad, or something is wrong with me, instead of the behavior.

What do you feel when you look at this image?

As women, we are constantly told who and what we should or shouldn’t be. We are told to be ourselves, yet not like that.

I am here to say:

FUCK SHAME and FUCK THAT!!!

and those who make you feel shameful.

We are all human and we have needs, food, shelter, love, and connection.

The image above speaks to the shame a lot of us feel towards our sexuality and pleasure. It gives me the feels, like so many feels. The model and I were wrapping her session and she sat there and curled up and I was like wait….grabbed the toys, laid them out, and gave her a bit of coaching and direction.

This image brings up tons of stuff for me, about being told to not like toys, that it was wrong to feel pleasure or to explore yourself. So, much more as well like being a sexual woman was taught to be bad, to want sex was bad, to enjoy it was really bad, yet men love it yet shame us for the same pleasures.

Again, FUCK THAT!!!

I am a woman watch me take my power back, and say fuck that!!!

Ladies, I invite you to help yourself, do the shadow work, and reclaim your power!!!

FUCK SHAME!!!

Let’s make some amazing art along the way!!!!

Just start, now where you are, let go of what others have told you to be, and start asking yourself who you want to be, and then take action on that, no matter what you can do this. Only you can.

I have created a safe place to explore the different sides of who you are, a no-judgment zone. A place you can be who you are, or who you want to be for a day, the best thing is you are safe to explore yourself in ways we rarely if ever get to.

So let us rise again ladies and reclaim our sacred power as women as creators, and as lovers.

Still I Rise

BY MAYA ANGELOU

You may write me down in history

With your bitter, twisted lies,

You may trod me in the very dirt

But still, like dust, I'll rise.

Does my sassiness upset you?

Why are you beset with gloom?

’Cause I walk like I've got oil wells

Pumping in my living room.

Just like moons and like suns,

With the certainty of tides,

Just like hopes springing high,

Still I'll rise.

Did you want to see me broken?

Bowed head and lowered eyes?

Shoulders falling down like teardrops,

Weakened by my soulful cries?

Does my haughtiness offend you?

Don't you take it awful hard

’Cause I laugh like I've got gold mines

Diggin’ in my own backyard.

You may shoot me with your words,

You may cut me with your eyes,

You may kill me with your hatefulness,

But still, like air, I’ll rise.

Does my sexiness upset you?

Does it come as a surprise

That I dance like I've got diamonds

At the meeting of my thighs?

Out of the huts of history’s shame

I rise

Up from a past that’s rooted in pain

I rise

I'm a black ocean, leaping and wide,

Welling and swelling I bear in the tide.

Leaving behind nights of terror and fear

I rise

Into a daybreak that’s wondrously clear

I rise

Bringing the gifts that my ancestors gave,

I am the dream and the hope of the slave.

I rise

I rise

I rise.

My Journey-empowerment....

Let’s Chat self empowerment, what does that look like for you? What works for you may not work for her., and that’s okay. For some reclaiming their inner power is more beautiful and powerful than any other thing they will invest in. What ever your journey looks like I would like to share a bit of mine with you today.

Hello I am Accalia, I own and run Sandpoint’s premier Boutique photography studio, Boushie Babes Photography.

I recently started a personal photography project, working on the art of emotion, and capturing that raw beautiful self. I want to do this for my clients above all else, though I know I can only coach you where I have been willing to meet myself. So I call this project Self Empowerment I will be showcasing over the next while is my self empowerment series where I coach myself to get a wide range of emotion, and show I can show you as well. I love showcasing those image’s that give you the feels, not just another pretty face.

Flirtation series…..

In this shot I was playing with flirtation, having a genuine smile, and playing with the hair as one would if they where flirting with another.

This was shot just before or just after the last one, while doing the flow posing for movements. I like the look as if I know something you need to know here, it’s playful and fun.

I really love the smirk, and the glow of my eyes here, and my hair.

So, in these image’s, I am barely wearing any makeup, I do have on mascara, and lipstick, and a photo finish primer, but that is it. Really.

Be you,

Be Bold,

Be beautiful

Just a few that I loved and had to share. Stay tuned for more, don’t forget to subscribe.