Love Yourself series, DeAnn post #2

In this series within my blog, I will share individual client stories, that they have allowed me to share with you, in hopes of encouraging you to love yourself more right now not when. These are real women, with real stories.

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Meet DeAnn, always a mom, even with Chiari, having had one brain surgery for that and the other 2 on her lower back and soon to have hip surgery. She has also been on a weight loss journey as well. She is an incredible woman on a hard road. The last few years have been kind of rough for her. She has been discovering who is she is again after some trauma, she is learning to set new boundaries for herself, and to spoil herself finally.

When we met up for her style session, she mentioned her divorce and the death of her beloved dad. We chatted about all the things she has overcome, about how she always wanted to do a shoot, just never had the courage or the right support till recently, and that’s why now was her time. I felt honored that she chose Boushie Babes to help her explore a few different sides of herself.

She pulled up in her Dad’s car and I knew to make this special we had to grab a few shots with her and the car, you know I just had to. So we started there and ended there, after hair and makeup. She even brought her new man’s shirt to get a few shots in too, so yes we did, I just love when clients bring different outfits to showcase their different sides.

She just wanted to see what others see when they say she is beautiful, to actually feel confident in her skin now, something I find most of us really need at least once in our lifetimes, if not more often.

Here is what DeAnn has to say about her session:

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More behind the scenes from Finally Love Yourself.

I love doing behind the scenes stuff, whether it be just stills, or like here a time-lapse video.

Where are all my witchy ladies at? It’s October……

Did you know we can add a spooky element, a bit of dry ice and a bit of this or that to your shoot?

We had so much fun playing with dry ice, fans, and all things witchy for this shoot. I just love capturing the different sides of my clients.

This series is part of my Finally Love Yourself Blog series. If you are ready to finally love yourself go here:

Finally Love Yourself

Model: Callie

HMUA: Lacey Cravens, BE-You-tiful Salon

Photo and Video: Accalia Carter, Boushie Babes Photography

FAQ eyeliner style...

FAQ Section:

Should people with small eyes wear eyeliner?

 

Answer: Absolutely. People who have smaller eyes need not stay away from eyeliner – in fact, eyeliner can do a lot to make your eyes look bigger. If you’re wondering how to apply liquid eyeliner to make eyes look bigger, consult some of the techniques in this article.

 

Should an older woman wear mascara on bottom lashes?

 

Answer: Women of all ages should wear whatever type of makeup they feel comfortable and confident in. There are no hard and fast rules. That said, mascara on bottom lashes can unwittingly make some eyes look droopy.

 

What color eyeliner should an older woman wear?

 

Answer: Black eyeliner gives a bold look that many women desire. That said, it can be too intense for some. Shades of brown, olive, taupe, and nude are alternatives that may give a more subtle look.

 

What is the difference between eyeliner and eyeshadow?

 

Answer: Eyeliner is perfect for depositing strong pigment in a precise way. Because of this, it is most typically used on the upper or lower lash line to define the eye shape. Eyeshadow is typically blended over the entire eyelid to add depth and dimension there.

I will have more beauty tips soon.

Tips to make your eyes bigger.

Eyeliner Tricks To Make Your Eyes Look Bigger

Eyeliner is a workhorse of the makeup bag, and it can completely change your look when applied in different ways. Here are some tried and true techniques that can actually work to help make your eyes look bigger, brighter, and more open.

Cat-Eye

Try A cat-eye or a wing to make your eyes look more open. Both of these flourishes may help draw the gaze outwards and can make your eyes look bigger. 

For flattering cat eyeliner, draw a line across your upper lash line, and flick it out all the way up to your crease area. The angle should follow the natural line of your lower lashes. Creating this unbroken sight line may make your eyes look bigger. Map out the line, and fill it in with liquid eyeliner or pencil eyeliner. 

To do a wing look, line your upper lashes and continue the line slightly beyond your eyes. Draw a second line on your lower lash line to give the appearance of larger, wider-set eyes.

Apply Dark Eyeliner Just Below Your Lower Lashes

Rather than line your lower rim with black, bring your pencil down a bit and line the area right beneath your waterline instead. By drawing this lower line, you help create the illusion that your eyes are bigger than they actually are.

Keep Your Inner Corners Free From Dark Eyeliner

Heavy eyeliner all around your eyes can give a closed-in look and make your eyes look smaller. Rather than lining from top to bottom, skip the inner corners and focus only on the outer V. This draws the eye outward and makes your eyes look bigger.

Tight lining

Tight lining is the technique of lining your upper waterline – the line of skin between your eyelashes and the eye. This is sometimes called the invisible eyeliner technique because you don’t actually see the liner.

 Tight lining can make the base of your eyelashes look thicker. It defines the natural shape of your eyes, gives you a lift, and makes your eyes look larger. To try this yourself, gently lift your lids and trace the area with pencil eyeliner. 

Black eyeliner pencil is the classic choice for a bold or sultry look. A brown shade of eyeliner gives a more natural look

Try A Blue Or Brown Shade to Line Your Upper Lash Line

Using a colored eyeliner – especially after tight lining with black liner – may help your eyes appear bigger and brighter. 

Try this: find a shade that coordinates with the natural color of your eyes, and use it on your upper lash line.

Try A Light Shimmer Eyeliner In Your Inner Corners

Apply a creamy, pale-colored eyeliner to the inner corner of your eyes, with or without shimmer. This acts as a highlighter and makes your eyes look more open.

Apply Nude Or White Eyeliner To Your Waterline

Applying white or nude eyeliner to your waterline (that area inside your lash line) may make you look more awake. This trick helps make your eyes look wider and brighter by making it look like you’ve extended the whites of your eyes. 

To try it, gently pull down on your lower lashes and up on your upper lashes to expose your waterline. Trace that area with white eyeliner, or use a shade close to your skin tone for a more natural look.

Frame And Lift Your Brows

Grab a soft white eyeliner pencil and draw a line above your brow bone and below your eyebrow arch. This serves to highlight and lift your pair of brows, which can make your eyes look more open.

Clean Up Your Look

Mistakes happen. If you end up with a wobbly area or a smear, there’s no need to start over. Try dipping a cotton swab in makeup remover, and gently wipe the problem area off your skin. You can also dab a brush in a neutral shade of concealer and sharpen your lines that way.

Finishing Touches

People of all eye sizes can benefit from a crimp of a lash curler and a few coats of black mascara. 

For the most eye-opening effect, curl your lashes with a lash curler and add mascara.

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Stay tuned for frequently asked questions about eye liner coming up next……

Confidence Hacks for Everyday.

“You can’t be half brave. You can’t fly on the ground. You have to shift from ‘should’ or ‘someday’ or ‘going to’ and do something.” — Chris Brogan
— https://www.liveyourmessage.com/business-quotes-for-entrepreneurs?inf_contact_key=ececd9ae150a893c13c2f2c1a6c0f69fd18a532c4142cb79caf2b269de1401fa
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7 tips to boost your confidence right now

  1. Visualize yourself as you want to be, not how you are. I know sounds easy, but takes daily practice, it gets easier as it becomes part of your routine.

  2. Affirm yourself- I know sounds cheesy, but it works. Say nice things to yourself, about yourself, use affirmations daily, this works but over time, if you come from a more toxic or trauma background this can take years but it’s worth it and so are you!!!

  3. Do one thing that scares you regularly work up to daily, start with monthly, then weekly, and keep working up to daily from there. Baby steps, and progress over perfection!!

  4. Question your inner Critic, always!!! She or he may have valid points, but that doesn’t always make them right. What are other possibilities?

  5. Set yourself up to win with small tasks that make an impact, like making your bed when you get up everyday, getting dressed, doing hair or makeup, give yourself credit for those small tasks, and those big tasks like going to work, paying off debt, baby steps here work up to the big stuff.

  6. Help someone else, whether it’s holding a door open, helping that old lady with her groceries, or giving that vet and his pup some food and a few bucks when they needed it. Pay for the car behind yours coffee, pay it forward, somehow some way do something for some else too. The act of giving allows both the giver and receiver to gain a bit of goodness.

  7. Last but not least, though probably the most important one of all : CARE FOR YOURSELF!! Just like on a plane if you don’t have your oxygen mask on you can’t really help others for too long, so make sure to take the time you need, the space you need, and give your body, mind and soul some really amazing care as well, whatever that looks like for you. Do you!!!

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End of Season Rescue Facial

I call it my ‘End-of-Winter Rescue Facial’...

And it’s the perfect way to combat that pale, dreary, tired look our skin tends to get after months of being cooped up indoors.

Best of all, it’s incredibly easy to make at home and works REALLY quickly.

(Just follow the introductions below — and you’ll likely notice a visibly brighter, healthier, and more vibrant-looking complexion almost instantly!)


WHAT YOU’LL NEED
Turmeric powder
Honey
Oat flour
Olive oil
Coconut milk
Unsweetened pineapple juice
Lemon juice (fresh or concentrate)
2 small bowls
Cotton balls

QUICK PREP
This facial consists of 2 (very easy) DIY components — a mask and a toner.

TO MAKE THE MASK...
Combine the following ingredients in a small bowl, and whisk until they form a smooth, even paste:

• 1 tsp turmeric powder
• 1 tsp honey
• 1 tsp olive oil
• 1 tsp coconut milk
• 1 tsp unsweetened pineapple juice
• 1 tsp oat flour (for consistency)

(If the mixture looks a bit thin, add an extra pinch of oat flour, if it looks too thick, add an extra splash of pineapple juice.)

TO MAKE THE TONER...
In a separate bowl, combine:

• 1 tbsp coconut milk
• 2 tsp lemon juice

[Note: As with all DIY recipes, make sure to test both the mask and toner on your inner wrist before using them on your face.]

Now You’re Ready to Start Your Facial

Step #1 Apply the MASK evenly over your entire face and leave on for 15 minutes.

Step #2 Rinse the mask off thoroughly with warm water and pat your skin dry with a clean towel.

Step #3 Dip a cotton ball into the TONER and swipe it over your face. (If you notice any remaining bits of yellow tint from the turmeric on your skin, gently rub the cotton ball over those areas several more times until they fade.)

Step #4 Let the toner air-dry on your skin for 3 minutes, and then rinse thoroughly with warm water.

Step #5 Step back and marvel at your radiant new GLOW!


What makes this facial so effective, you ask?

Well, let’s start by looking at the ingredients in the MASK:

*Pineapple juice is rich in both Vitamin C, a potent natural skin-brighter, and glycolic acid — a compound that helps breakup and remove dead skin-dulling dead surface cells.

*Coconut milk is great at softening skin and supporting elasticity — plus, it also contains copper, an essential age-fighting nutrient that helps even skin texture and combat wrinkles.

*Turmeric is chock-full of antioxidants that help right off impurities, boost radiance, and energize your complexion — while its rich pigment helps give pale winter skin a much-needed hint of natural golden color.

*Olive oil (which I mainly like to add to keep the turmeric from actually staining skin yellow) also helps hydrate and add luster to your complexion.

*And lastly, honey — a natural humectant and exfoliant — helps gently polish your skin’s surface, while locking in moisture for a dewy, plush look.

Then, once your skin has absorbed all these amazing nutrients…

The lemon-coconut TONER comes in to give it one last burst of skin-BRIGHTENING vitamin C and soothing hydration...

So by the time you’ve finished your facial — it’s nearly impossible NOT to be glowing!

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Dudoir.....

So, I have always loved the human form since I was a kid, female or male bodies. There is so much beauty in the human form I love to shoot it!! I do specialize in empowering woman through photography, and on a few occasions I have had the chance to empower a few men as well. Below I will show you my first Dudoir shoot to my most recent, I hope you see the passion and the growth, as I am always improving my art.

So my first Dudoir shoot was right after my studio fire and was outside on a chilly spring day this last year. He was a young man who had struggled with his identity and his image. His shoot was more conservative and shy, but his smile says it all. As always here at Boushie Babes Photography we work with our clients comfort levels.

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This next shot was taken up the road or down the road, I directed him to play with his hair, just love the hair. We had fun, we laughed and talked, and he felt more himself after the shoot than he had in a long time. He felt comfortable in his skin for the first time in forever.

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This next shot was from a couples shoot that I had when got my new studio set up after the fire. He was looking at her off in the background, I said think about how much you want her and this was the result….. I do my best to capture a few shots that show true emotion like below.

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the next shot was the same pose, she was closer getting ready to move in for a few poses, and he was patiently waiting….He felt more confident and more masculine after his shoot.

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These last few shots, I will say this, I was amazed when he said yes, and even more amazed when he wanted the illusion of full nude, and I was shocked when he said I could share a few with you all. His shoot was totally on the fly and unplanned, I was super stoked when I nailed a few shots I have been dreaming of……so I saved some of the best for last….hope you enjoy as much as I enjoyed taking these shots and empowering these gentle men. Thank you.

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Behind the Scenes....

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I model the poses, and pose you down to your fingertips and toe tips!!

I model the poses, and pose you down to your fingertips and toe tips!!

These shots are from models who said they Loved the behind the scenes shots and videos, so I asked if I could take some during their shoots, and both got even more excited. We had so much fun capturing these shots, we laughed, and posed it was great. The models both had fun, and loved their shoots. Stay tuned later for the after shots of some of these, they are hot.

We do a make over,and then play dress up, and your the queen!!!

We do a make over,and then play dress up, and your the queen!!!

2020 Passion Project

Hey you, yes you,

Do you have an untold story, that needs to be told, but your not sure how or where to start? Have you been through something that changed you into the empowered woman you are becoming? Did you over come something that changed the way you see yourself, like cancer, abuse, or something else? Did you have to learn to love yourself again?

Yes, we have all been through something that changed us, but how did you over come it? For 2020, I am looking for 24 Ladies who are ready to help empower others with their stories. Stories will be shared, and the photos taken will be used in a calendar, website, and future book. I am using my passion for empowering others through the art of photography to give back to you, and also empower others along the way with your help of course. We have all seen those posts and Instagram stories of photographers empowering woman who went through something…..We have all kinda wanted to be one of those woman but rarely ever do anything about it. Well, here is your chance to do something and be one of those woman. With my passion and your stories we can create a series I am calling : Empowerment from Loving the Body Your In!!

Do you have the courage to share a part of your story, get pampered for a day, and gain even more self confidence? If selected, you will receive:

  • Free Glamour Boudoir Professional photography session

  • Free Professional Make over

  • Free 8x10 wall art

  • $100 print credit towards a Collection if you decide to purchase more

  • All purchases come with the Digital files.

  • The chance to be treated like a Queen for day!

  • Get featured in the blog, have your story told

  • Plus, Bragging rights….your in a calendar, featured in a book…….

“You Are Perfectly Imperfect!!!”

“You Are Perfectly Imperfect!!!”

Are you ready to share and gain more confidence than you have right now? Do you want a lasting memory that empowered you rather than not? Are you willing to get out of your comfort level?

If your still on the fence, check out our love notes section :

https://www.boushiebabesphotography.com/testimonials

If your ready to take action go here:

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdGGjMqIZzbqlhF3oKjDdSq_UOF5AecWA7JllunGuAHn1yf1g/viewform?usp=pp_url

Thank you!!!

Thank you!!!