10 things that say Pro vs. Hobbyist

So, today I wanted to share things to look for when selecting a professional photographer. These are things that for me I look for when hiring out myself. Especially when looking for a Boudoir photographer. Some of these can be questions you ask before booking or like me and some of my clients you find out the hard way. Either way always do your homework. If you are like me I want the best experience for the best price.

  1. Find a photographer you like their style, meaning you like their brand, the images on their website, (if they don’t have a website), and you like their editing style as well, all the professionals I know don’t give out raw files, there are reasons for this I will cover in another blog.

  2. Ask them their why, why photography? You find out so much about someone else’s motives with this question, most pros have a mission statement or reason why they got started. This evolves over time as well.

  3. Are they legit? Meaning do they have a business license, pay taxes, use all the right contracts, and how long have they been in business?

  4. Are they always improving their craft? Me, I like a pro who knows they don’t know everything, but they strive to learn as much as they can. This means investing in their business as well with mentors, and classes.

  5. Then I go into how they run a session, give me the deets, how long, what I need, do I need to know to pose (pros this one will be a hard no you don’t need to know anything, most have a list of things to bring, some cover hair and makeup some don’t, they will have you and should coach and direct you the whole time, etc.

  6. Then, I ask about pricing, pros have a price list and usually have firm boundaries and policies in place that work for them and their business, no 2 will be the same, so stop comparing. I have collections, that work for me, others will be different, though pros will have something for you to see, hold, or download so you can see a full price list. Some sell inclusively, meaning everything for one low price, and others charge according to their cost of doing business, some sell by the image.

  7. Then how do I get to see my images? I do in-person viewing right after your session, others may do a zoom viewing a week or so later. If it takes longer than that, the pro maybe has too high volume and can’t keep up, or they maybe aren’t as pro as they think.

  8. Then how long is the turnaround, meaning how long till I get my images/collections? At, my studio I have a fast turnaround, as soon as the final payment I edit and send out the digitals maybe 2 days after your session( usually that same day as the final payment). Albums and wall art take maybe a week to get back from the lab for me. The rule of thumb for most pros is 1-4 weeks for all products to be delivered after final payment.

  9. How do I receive my digital images? This one really sets the pros apart from the beginners. Pros DO NOT share your images on social media without a signed model release!!!! They DO NOT deliver images over FaceBook!!!! I email my clients images over, some pros use online galleries., and some use USB drives.

  10. This one is more of something that sets those apart who have one the work from those who haven’t, pros have systems in place, we write blogs, we have websites, make content, we have emails and auto-responses to FAQ because we value not only your time and energy but our own. Let me be clear this all takes time to set up, I have been working for 3 years to get and hone most of my systems and they still need work every now and again., so a beginner may not have all this setup.

How to pose like a model when you're not

How do the cover models do it?

A knock-out photo time and time again?

Well, genetics help ( yes) but so does knowing how to pose for photos, tricks of the trade that can help turn you into the version of you you’ve always wanted.

So in order to prevent you from cringing at yet another picture of yourself, we have collected these tips with the help of the experts so you can take a good photo well before the camera clicks.

1) Before the shoot -

Get some “R&R” take it easy, no tricks here get some rest. The best photos are moments. So just be in them, and relax. Get a good night’s sleep, and don’t eat too much the night before either. You want to be as fresh as you can be. If possible do yoga or meditate before.

2) Posture, hair, shave, and clothes -

Are 4 main things to consider when preparing for your photograph to be taken. No matter how you want to look be it smart or rugged, all of these things are easy to do, but the thought and preparation before a shoot are difficult to fix at the last minute. It goes without saying a fresh hairstyle and a clean shave will make you look more presentable but the clothes you wear are often overlooked pieces of the jigsaw when it comes to preparing for a photo shoot.

3) What to do with your face:

One thing that may make one side better than the other is a must hide the blemish. To hide a double chin, or even just to prevent one showing up that isn’t there push your chin out a little bit down. This will also make the jaw look more angular. Do not pull it back as this tends to be why double chins show up in photos. An elevated camera angle will also help here, and not facing the camera squarely, as doing so can cause a face to widen, while a little bit of a turn helps create a more flattering look. When smiling try to keep your tongue behind your teeth and to the roof of your mouth. This keeps the smile controlled, prevents a gummy smile, and can lift the face while tightening the area underneath your chin.

4)When taking selfies-

Hold the camera as far away from your face as possible, especially if you’ve got a prominent snout.

5) What to do with your body:

Just get comfortable, if it feels weird, it probably looks like it. As mentioned early, maintaining posture is also key. Keep your chest broad, shoulders back, and pinch your shoulder blades together to prevent hunched over shoulders. Looking over your shoulder with your back towards the camera is flattering for everyone it shows a good jawline and angle for the face. Avoid creating parallel lines though, such as standing with arms by one’s sides. It is rigid and unflattering.

Badass babe....

In this video, we have the amazing Heather, she is such a beauty, I mean woman crushing, type of woman.

I had a blast working with her, and the emotions we caught in 10 minutes of shoot time are amazing, watch me do maybe 3-4 poses and tons of emotion...

If you want to see yourself in a new light you can't afford to wait anymore.

The one thing we never get back is time...

You will never have this exact body again, it will change, things will sag, and you will change over time regardless.

So, learn something from us older ladies who are loving our experiences, do it now!!

Don't wait till you lose the weight, or you get another year older, I wish I had amazing images of myself when I was even more of a bombshell in my 20s and 30s.

The only you gain by waiting is the regret of not doing it sooner!!!

I have heard this from so many clients. They always say they wish they would have done it sooner.

I do offer pre-payment plans, so what that means is you can start paying for a collection now, and by this time next year you will be in the studio having your experience.

If you wait it will be 2 years, not just one ladies. I have a lady coming this week who is so excited because she jumped last year when I rolled out my pre-payment plans, they come with bonuses and extras, and some tips to help you while you wait.

I am phasing out post-payment plans ladies (not a debt collector and it takes too long to get your wonderful images), the post-session plans will be financed through Klarna, or Afterpay only, that way you get your wonderful collections and still get the luxury of paying it off over time.

So all bullshit aside, what's really stopping you?

Tell that voice to shut up when it says but this or but that.....

Your soul and wellbeing need this.

You deserve this.

You are worth it!!!

Ladies,

I am still stoked about this workshop I just got back from last month. It was so freaking amazing!!!!

I can not wait to collaborate with each of you over the years!!!

I can't wait to show you just how beautiful you are right now!!!

I now know for sure without a doubt, that I got you. I can showcase you in a way that will level up your confidence and the way you feel about your body now.

Yes!!! right now!!!

I have been shooting this month back at my studio, and while designing client albums I have loved the variety and difference in my work. I will show those only once the client gets their products, but man we have created some amazing art this month.

So really are you ready to get out of your comfort zone?

Life is to be lived now not when.

The Dance...

Watch the dance with us in this video, as we dance in a fashion ladies for sure, the studio gets hot, and the images are amazing!!!

I am so grateful to be able to learn a better way to coach and direct you when you come in for a session. I now can get results with each one of you ladies without too much effort, we just flow, and it's freaking amazing!!!!

I come alive but better yet YOU come alive. We dance, and flow, the results honestly speak for themselves ladies. Have the best day you can today. Find a moment to dance.

oooh...Ladies.... this is hot....we both felt like we needed a smoke after this session.....it was 🔥🔥🔥

I love what I have learned with this new methodology, I am amazed at my work now, in just a few minutes we got so many intimate portraits that captured her personality and her different sides.

What do you miss out on by waiting.....

confidence

self-love

seeing just how beautiful you are right now

amazing intimate portraits for years to come

Seeing yourself in a new light

The amazing art of you personally

Freedom to explore in a safe place

Let's chat when you are ready to get out of your comfort zone Stay tuned for what's coming up in the next few weeks... Join my VIP Group if you haven't yet..... Otherwise, you miss out on giveaways and more... https://www.facebook.com/groups/817628441929723/

Love Yourself series post 13, Sandra

In this series within my blog, I will share individual client stories, that they have allowed me to share with you, in hopes of encouraging you to love yourself more right now not when. These are real women, with real stories.

Meet Sandra woman who has struggled to find herself, she has overcome so much in her life and she did this session to help her celebrate herself after years of trauma and abuse.

She was one of the first ladies to jump on my prepayment plans last year when I rolled them out, so this was a year in the making as she was prepaid. When it came time to do her style session we were both so excited, this was something she had been dreaming about but had always listened to others rather than honoring herself, till last year when she took the chance to do what she wanted to finally.

The next month we had her shoot scheduled, and the day of anything and everything that could go wrong did go wrong, cars breaking down, needy people, styling issues, running several hours late. We went through it together, I went and grabbed her when her car broke down and gave her a ride back so her man could fix it while we did the shoot. It was stressful and quite a day.

We still did it though, we got her hair and make-up done, we got the outfits selected, and we shook out the stress and got some amazing images!!! We had so much fun and stayed a bit later because she needed some time, it all worked out in the end and a week later delivered her album and wall art.

She was working hard the day I dropped off her Album and wall art.

Glow-Up

The class that leveled my work up years in days…..

After Stripped down…

Well, I am finally finding time to sit down and write this out, I have been busy since getting back last month.

Last month I finally went to an In-Person workshop with my mentor Denise Birdsong, She teaches the Stripped Down Method. I had been investing in the online course now for 2-years, this year it was a goal to make it to at least one in-person workshop.

I Made It!!!

I went to the workshop, made some lifelong connections, and totally found part of my tribe in that workshop. We got real, we got humble, and we realized we are all human. It was freaking amazing!!!!

So amazing I have already secured my spot in the next round of workshops!!! I can’t wait to see how my work levels up this round. I am so grateful to have this opportunity to learn and grow into the artist I am.

The first image at the top is from the workshop I didn’t even recognize my work, wait really I got that? WOW, I was amazed.

This next image is from after the 2 online classes before I made it to the workshop. I love the work, just could be better with what I know now.

After 2 online courses of Stripped Down

This next image is from my first year in Boudoir, I get lucky a ton with my clients in these, but I wasn’t getting the results I wanted with every client, and I knew I could I just had to level up my skills. Stripped Down was the missing link for me, it leveled my work up years in just a few days at the workshop.

I am now collaborating with each client in ways I was not able to before, the result speaks for themselves ladies, I am so grateful to learn more, and collaborate more with each of you.

Before Stripped Down….

The lesson here is to invest in the skills you need to work on and find a teacher or mentor that has been where you are. This is the most valuable lesson one can learn in today’s world, learn something new, and find a better way. The more you invest in yourself and your life, the more others will invest in you.

Love Yourself Series, Sue, Post #12

In this series within my blog, I will share individual client stories, that they have allowed me to share with you, in hopes of encouraging you to love yourself more right now not when. These are real women, with real stories.

Meet Sue, she came in for a gift for her hubby, she said that he was the only man who ever made her feel beautiful and sexy. They dated in high school, went separate ways, and later on came back together and the love they share is incredible. Over the years while they were apart she felt fat and ugly, she hated photos of her and started to realize she had no nice photos of herself, none.

So after years of work, effort, finding her love again, and finally starting to love herself, she decided it was time to finally do the shoot!! During her style session, we talked about how she had been working out, being more instead of working more. We grabbed a few things and talked about the things at home she had and wanted to use. Also, informed me he wants a large wall art, which I was all in for, I love when my clients get those wall arts. We talked about she had some tattooed makeup, and gets lashes done as well.

On the day of her shoot, we clicked, even more, and had so much fun. Our favorite outfit was something she threw in off-hand, and it was the perfect thing for her. She looked amazing!!! In fact, most of her and his favs were in this outfit, a red cotton form-fitted dress, simple, yet powerful!!!

When she came to get her wall art and album, she told me about wanting to buy pants, and actual jeans for the first time in over 30 years, did I mention she is 60. All I can say is how much I admire those who start the journey they know they need to take, no matter what the age, thank you.

Here’s what she had to say after her shoot, I forgot to do the video, so this is what she wrote:

“Before the shoot I was nervous. During the shoot, I was completely comfortable with it all.
And after the shoot going through all the pictures and seeing my husband's face, was worth it all. This is something every woman needs to do for herself. Women are beautiful in every shape and size and Boushie Babes takes beautiful pictures to capture your inner beauty. Thank you for this fun adventure. You have a rare talent. Thank you.” Sue

Love Yourself Series, Lucinda post #11

In this series within my blog, I will share individual client stories, that they have allowed me to share with you, in hopes of encouraging you to love yourself more right now not when. These are real women, with real stories.

Meet Lucinda, She is a 66-year-old grandma, mother, wife, and widow, who has always wanted to do a shoot like this, but never found the time, her husband really wanted her to have a session too. She battled with her weight her whole life, was finally seeing results, and loved it! This shoot was her way of celebrating her goals, and how far she has come.

We meet up at the valley mall, and I noticed right away that she loved to smile, she has an amazing heart and a very kind soul. She had ordered a few things online, I believe we grabbed a few things as well while there. We talked about how she was a beautician and had been doing it for years, and had just recently retired.

During her shoot, we had so much fun and it flowed, she wanted to do all the things, break out of outdated beliefs. So we did, we collaborated and created some amazing images, I just love the ones in the button-up shirt and the hat. Though enough about how much fun I had, here is what she had to say about her session:

Some of her favorite images…..

Love Yourself Series, Post #10 Sheryl

In this series within my blog, I will share individual client stories, that they have allowed me to share with you, in hopes of encouraging you to love yourself more right now not when. These are real women, with real stories.

Meet Sheryl, this amazing 64-year-old badass woman. She is a mother, grandmother, widow, and one hell of a badass woman. She recently lost 40 pounds, and she and her husband always wanted to get this done for her and him. So, after his passing, she decided to really start living, and get out of her comfort zone.

She saw my ad, and jumped, she knew she had to have one of these sessions for herself after all these years, it’s never too late, or early. The lesson I learned here is don’t wait, do it!! We did her style session, and we clicked right away, I just loved her personality, the fact she rode a bike and was really enjoying doing the things she never “had made the time” before, she said no more, now is my time.

She wanted to showcase her body art, and her new self, which we did amazingly. In fact, she was so in love with her images, she felt freaking amazing. Below are some of her images, her love note, and client reveal.

So without further ado, here is what Sheryl said about her session:

Isn’t just an amazing woman?

Love Yourself Series, Post #9, Rachelle

In this series within my blog, I will share individual client stories, that they have allowed me to share with you, in hopes of encouraging you to love yourself more right now not when. These are real women, with real stories.

Meet Rachelle, She just turned 51 and really wanted to show herself how beautiful she was, she had never really felt beautiful, and her whole life others told her the opposite, that she was fat, or even shamed her for being her. Her mom used to model, and she felt as though she always fell short of that, and wasn’t enough. As we got to talking she talked more and more about she felt shame around exploring who she was, I mean all the sides of herself.

She never really married or had kids, worked the same job for 20 years, she just finally started to invest in herself. She started to travel more, and do things she always wanted to regardless of what others thought. During the style session, we had a blast and found some amazing pieces for her session and the upcoming trip she was taking to Mexico. She wanted to be tan for her session, and it was kind of just perfect timing.

During her session we talked a lot about how much she never felt beautiful or pretty in her life, she had so much shame around wanting to explore the different sides of herself, she was grateful to have a safe place to explore finally, or a place where there are no judgments, shame, only love an acceptance. I was grateful and honored that she shared her story with me. I mean, isn’t she just amazingly beautiful? I think so.

Here’s what Rachelle had to say after her session:

Rachelle’s Reveal

Love Yourself series, Mandy post #8

In this series within my blog, I will share individual client stories, that they have allowed me to share with you, in hopes of encouraging you to love yourself more right now not when. These are real women, with real stories.

Meet Mandi, one hell of a woman. She started off with a brief rundown of her life: mother of 2, divorced and still, friends, domestic abuse survivor, battled with her weight due to thyroid issues, cervical cancer, ex-military. She has worked in the medical field for over 20 years now, as an EMT, CNA, Med Tech Pharmacy.

She has been through so much and finally decided to love herself more and gift her S.O. with some amazing photos for Christmas. She needed to pamper herself since she was so busy helping others and caretaking so many people in her life. Does this sound like you, always going and doing?

We meet in CDA for her style session as it was one of the first ones I did. We found a few things and talked about her riding leathers and it was the one thing she had to have a few pics of her ass in! I was super excited to get the shots she wanted to show off her assets, and her body now that she was happy with her weight.

The shoot was amazing!!!! We had so much fun. She got images with a wide variety, and the shots she wanted for her and her riding leathers, some in a special t-shirt she loved, and more. She had such a hard time picking her favs, but she finally settled on her favs. She went for the payment plan, so she could still handle life too.

So without further a do hear is what she said in her own words:

Love Yourself series, Tiffany post #7

In this series within my blog, I will share individual client stories, that they have allowed me to share with you, in hopes of encouraging you to love yourself more right now not when. These are real women, with real stories.

Meet Tiffany, a mother of 2 who like most of us struggle with self-esteem, and viewing our bodies in a positive way. She has been on the road of self-acceptance, struggling to learn to lover herself now as her body has changed over the years. She gets told by so many people that she is so beautiful, but she wasn’t feeling it. How many woman does that sound like to you? Is it you?

Do you question if you are truly beautiful, or tired of not seeing what others see in you? She had heard about friends doing these sessions, and had seen the changes in them and their confidence, and body image. She finally said if they can so can I, and that lead her to Boushie Babes. We did the style session and talked about life, parenting, and so much more. I was excited, and she was feeling more confident about stepping out of her comfort zone.

She arrived the day of her shoot, and we just feel into conversation and playing dress up, make-up went super fast, her hair was short and easy to do. I showed her a few tips and tricks, and showed her how to breathe, yes breathe, have you ever noticed when you take photos most faces looked posed, or stressed in someway? That’s because they are holding their breath. We had so much fun, and she loved her images. She did do a payment plan, so when we do those the images, and blog are not released till the client’s get their images first. We always strive to serve our clients more.

So without further a do, hear is what Tiffany said about her session:

Love Yourself series, Jenny post #6

In this series within my blog, I will share individual client stories, that they have allowed me to share with you, in hopes of encouraging you to love yourself more right now not when. These are real women, with real stories.

Meet Jenny, a local teacher of Culinary arts at NIC. She found out she had Crohn’s disease, and that led her to a healthier lifestyle and back to school. She has been on her own since she was 12, raised 2 grown daughters. She is celebrating 40 years of being here with us. She had a major tummy tuck to get rid of excess skin and tissue she had from years of medication weigh gain.

She said that learning to love her body now, thinner, yet different has been super hard for her. Her tummy was even more of sensitive spot because of her tuck, and the changes. She did the shoot as a way to showcase her to herself, and treat as well.

During her style session we went over outfits, and we talked about make-up too, I noticed she had 2 different colored eyes, one blue, and one green. In some of the photos you can see a difference in eye color, though the way I did her eye shadow has one eye looking more hazel than green, just an example of how you can bring out different colors using other colors. We had so much fun with this session. I will let you hear her side of things:

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Love Yourself series, Melanie post #5

In this series within my blog, I will share individual client stories, that they have allowed me to share with you, in hopes of encouraging you to love yourself more right now not when. These are real women, with real stories.

Meet Melanie, a school bus driver for over 17 years!!! She has an Autistic son who is a bus aide for special needs too. She is a widow with a happy love story. Her and her husband where madly in love, and then dementia happened. Though this one will get your heart strings ladies, her and her long standing hubby needed help towards then end, and she wanted someone to help who loved him as much as she did. That person ended up being his life long best friend, since they all where so close already it made things easier. In the end her husband asked his best friend to love her like he did, and to care for after he was gone.

Sometime after his passing her and his best friend fell in love, or shall we say a deepening of love they already had. They are now happy together knowing both their spouses would be happy they found love again. As she told me this during her shoot, we both teared up. She feels so blessed to have 2 great loves in her life.

Her hubby always said she was beautiful, even though she at one time was over 400 pounds. To honor her hubby, and show off her new body, after loosing most of the weight she wanted to showcase herself, for herself and her new love. So we did, she never wore makeup, so we got her all dolled up and ready for the shoot. By the end I felt I had a new friend and she felt so empowered and beautiful it was amazing. She wrote to me a week ago saying she is peeking at her album almost daily, and thinking make-up isn’t so bad. She feels proud of how far she has come, and now is loving seeing the results of her hard work.

So, without anymore to-do, here is what Melanie had to say about her experience:

Love Yourself series, Cecelia post #4

In this series within my blog, I will share individual client stories, that they have allowed me to share with you, in hopes of encouraging you to love yourself more right now not when. These are real women, with real stories.

Meet Cecelia, a strong woman, working in a man’s field, she is a ranch hand and a dam fine one too. After 2 not-so-great marriages', and 2 lovely kids, and a bunch of trauma that for a while she didn’t even know was happening. She started her healing journey and started to find out she wasn’t who everyone said or thought she was, that in fact, she is this amazing badass woman. She wanted to break free of her chains so to speak on this shoot, and so did I. She said we could shoot on the ranch and I said hell yes!!

We met up for her style session and ended up chatting for hours at the mall about life, and the struggles we go through as women in today’s world. The day of her shoot everything just came together, it was an all-day event of course, with the horses, the cows, and all the possibilities we had to stay focused. We got so many amazing shots, and watching her come to life and start to glow again was priceless. We made some amazing art that day.

So without further ado here is what she said about her session: ( we ran so late, I forgot to do the video)

“I was both very nervous and excited for my photo shoot. It is a big deal for me bare so much of myself. It was a wonderful experience, so much fun and laughing. I have felt that good about myself in a long time. It was so hard to choose a handful of pictures, there were so many amazing shots. It helped that we got to shoot in one of the prettiest in the county, with many great props. This is an experience everyone should do for themselves, it is a very powerful and uplifting experience.” Cecelia

As you can imagine for a ranch hand life is super busy, she loved her album, just had to run to feed the livestock. This was her reveal.